eikk008822
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Hey guys, what are some quick conversation starters you can use on women you see that are cashiers, waitresses etc.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Tips for cashiers, waitresses, etc?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
eikk008822
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Let me rephrase that, how do you quickly generate attraction with cashiers and waitresses?
plate's_empty
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I started a thread about this before. Didn't get any responses 
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities.
Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities. Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Has it really gotten to this point where men have no idea what to say to women who are PAID to talk to you?
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
LiveFreeX
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How about... "Hey babe, your job sucks and I bet you're broke, wanna come and ruin my life?".
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Why criticize? The guy just wants some help. I manage a lot of cashiers and can tell you to simply be as natural as possible. Give em what you got man. They work there, they are not running away anywhere. They will either be into or not. Slightly more direct considering your time is short though.
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If you have trouble keeping a conversation going with women who are paid to BS with you, then I can't help you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
plate's_empty
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That's the whole point. They're being PAID to talk to you, instead of WANTING to talk to you.BigSmooth said:
He was asking advice on how to generate attraction from these quick interactions. That's all dude. Relax.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I am relaxed. I'm just dumbfounded that we are now treating these girls like they're from a different planet.plate's_empty said:
From my experience, if you can generally get girls to be attracted to you normally, you can get waitresses, cashiers, hostesses, and anyone else that is paid to talk to you be ATTRACTED to you.
It's really not that hard. There's too much over-analyzing going on over here.
I've picked up my fair share of waitresses before. The best thing to do from what I've gathered is be charming and relatable. Being a d0uche does not work very well. The easier you make her life on the job, the more she will notice you. Oh, and looks do play a bigger part here because your window of opportunity is definitely smaller so the way you are judged is a bit more materialistic.
Just be charming people. Be well-liked. Be well-dressed. That's all there is to it.
~ BSmooth