eikk008822
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Hey guys, what are some quick conversation starters you can use on women you see that are cashiers, waitresses etc.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tips for cashiers, waitresses, etc?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
eikk008822
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Let me rephrase that, how do you quickly generate attraction with cashiers and waitresses?
plate's_empty
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I started a thread about this before. Didn't get any responses 
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities.
Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
Not necessarily about waitresses but about cashiers, receptionists. Every day people you'd run into while out and about doing your normal daily activities. Hot Receptionist: "Hi, how are you today?"
Boring nobody: "Good, how are you?
Hot Receptionist: "Good, thanks."
Boring nobody: (nothing)
I was looking for a response to "Hi, how are you today?" Considering if you're out, you can hear it up to ten times in a day.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Has it really gotten to this point where men have no idea what to say to women who are PAID to talk to you?
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
Are we THAT socially inept now?
Geez. It's like people who look for advice on how to start up conversations at a business ****tail event or something.
This is ridiculous...
LiveFreeX
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How about... "Hey babe, your job sucks and I bet you're broke, wanna come and ruin my life?".
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Why criticize? The guy just wants some help. I manage a lot of cashiers and can tell you to simply be as natural as possible. Give em what you got man. They work there, they are not running away anywhere. They will either be into or not. Slightly more direct considering your time is short though.
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If you have trouble keeping a conversation going with women who are paid to BS with you, then I can't help you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
if you want tips on picking them up, though? Remember that they're the help. You can't hit on them in the same way, and I'd lean toward not hitting on them at all.
however, there are exceptions to this rule. Talk to them as if they're women that you're not sexually interested in and see where that leads you.
plate's_empty
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That's the whole point. They're being PAID to talk to you, instead of WANTING to talk to you.BigSmooth said:
He was asking advice on how to generate attraction from these quick interactions. That's all dude. Relax.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I am relaxed. I'm just dumbfounded that we are now treating these girls like they're from a different planet.plate's_empty said:
From my experience, if you can generally get girls to be attracted to you normally, you can get waitresses, cashiers, hostesses, and anyone else that is paid to talk to you be ATTRACTED to you.
It's really not that hard. There's too much over-analyzing going on over here.
I've picked up my fair share of waitresses before. The best thing to do from what I've gathered is be charming and relatable. Being a d0uche does not work very well. The easier you make her life on the job, the more she will notice you. Oh, and looks do play a bigger part here because your window of opportunity is definitely smaller so the way you are judged is a bit more materialistic.
Just be charming people. Be well-liked. Be well-dressed. That's all there is to it.
~ BSmooth