TINDER

[odhisochi]

I recently decided to join Tinder. I put a few pictures of myself and my bio says the following, "All I am asking for is that you be at least 5'5" or taller. Live in the same city as me. Don't be fat. Be employed. Never call me 'Babe'. Most importantly, DON'T ASK ME FOR NUDES! If you meet the above criteria we can work on dating, if not, all I can offer is friendship."
I am getting matches from women of all ages a big percentage of them are telling me to stop body shaming "plus-size women" and unmatching me immediately I respond that plus-size is still fat, but just said in a way that they like.
Does anyone have a tinder experience that is similar to mine?

 

[Identikit_Radiohead]

Not Tinder, but I had my account deleted TWICE on POF (plenty of fish) just for putting in my bio that my preference were for women of or under a UK size 10 (USA size 6), or a put in my profile I prefer slim women. No insults from women members via PM, no insults towards women members via PM. Just a moderator message telling me to change my bio due to it being "offensive". The offensive part being nothing other than a f'king dress size / body shape preference.

Even when I responded to the moderation teams message "what's offensive about my profile" they never responded back. Then I try to sign in days later and get a message that my account was deleted due to "abuse of guidelines" or some ****.

I'm not making this up either. Its outrageous IMO, because women who put "6ft+" in their bio don't get warnings to change it. They are trying to police male sexuality and taste, thats all it is. So they can fk off with their ****ty apps and misandry.

 

[Gamisch]

Sigh....incels taking over this forum...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If your goal is to get laid why would you do things that are working against you in that department?

Just because you believe something doesn't mean you need to advertise it to the world.

It would be like walking into a job interview and voluntarily telling them within the firstonite that you've been fired from your last two jobs for getting into a fight with your boss.

It's not "Cool". It's not "Alpha". It's not "Bad Boy".

It's just dumb.

 

[UK manc]

Not Tinder, but I had my account deleted TWICE on POF (plenty of fish) just for putting in my bio that my preference were for women of or under a UK size 10 (USA size 6), or a put in my profile I prefer slim women. No insults from women members via PM, no insults towards women members via PM. Just a moderator message telling me to change my bio due to it being "offensive". The offensive part being nothing other than a f'king dress size / body shape preference.

Even when I responded to the moderation teams message "what's offensive about my profile" they never responded back. Then I try to sign in days later and get a message that my account was deleted due to "abuse of guidelines" or some ****.

I'm not making this up either. Its outrageous IMO, because women who put "6ft+" in their bio don't get warnings to change it. They are trying to police male sexuality and taste, thats all it is. So they can fk off with their ****ty apps and misandry.

Here's an idea.

You can see girls' weight in real life. Bin the waste of time apps.