mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tinder
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Screen shot it
She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'
lol
lemmeguess, postwall and cratered smv profile, right?
btw, watched a few more of those girlfriend shows...I get a laugh from them.
a little different flavour than the sex an the c ity shows
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
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Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
Mike32ct
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That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It should read: "Looking for a fool to help me out while I go hunt for d1ck".
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
It really is a digital junkyard for past prime puss. I joined last week to see what's what and whilst
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Seriously.
I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
Badoo must be terrible then. My French cousins were using that, yikes
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backseatjuan
Banned
She wanted a man to fist her
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With enough body game and image to "play"I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
I'd bet there are some awful ampits on European Badoo.... I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...
I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...ya, that's what "man good at massages" means, I guess.She wanted a man to fist her
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.
that's one way to skin a cat
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
that cat will be skinned.
still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.
Hope all is well, didn't think you were on OLD for some reason.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I do tinder occasionally. I like a gf thing that we Netflix and chill. Occasionally go out. The connection and intimacy is the most important part.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.