mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Screen shot it
She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'
lol
lemmeguess, postwall and cratered smv profile, right?
btw, watched a few more of those girlfriend shows...I get a laugh from them.
a little different flavour than the sex an the c ity shows
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
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Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
Mike32ct
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That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It should read: "Looking for a fool to help me out while I go hunt for d1ck".
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
It really is a digital junkyard for past prime puss. I joined last week to see what's what and whilst
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Seriously.
I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
Badoo must be terrible then. My French cousins were using that, yikes
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
Banned
She wanted a man to fist her
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With enough body game and image to "play"I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
I'd bet there are some awful ampits on European Badoo.... I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...
I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...ya, that's what "man good at massages" means, I guess.She wanted a man to fist her
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.
that's one way to skin a cat
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
that cat will be skinned.
still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.
Hope all is well, didn't think you were on OLD for some reason.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I do tinder occasionally. I like a gf thing that we Netflix and chill. Occasionally go out. The connection and intimacy is the most important part.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.