mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Screen shot itI should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'Screen shot it
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'
lol
lemmeguess, postwall and cratered smv profile, right?
btw, watched a few more of those girlfriend shows...I get a laugh from them.
a little different flavour than the sex an the c ity shows
That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol....searching for a man good at who would baby sit her cats.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It should read: "Looking for a fool to help me out while I go hunt for d1ck".That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol.
Seriously.Ca
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.Ca
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
Badoo must be terrible then. My French cousins were using that, yikesIt really is a digital junkyard for past prime puss. I joined last week to see what's what and whilst
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
With enough body game and image to "play"I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.![]()
ya, that's what "man good at massages" means, I guess.She wanted a man to fist her![]()
Do it.With enough body game and image to "play"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.Do it.
(Said in a Ben Stiller voice from Starsky & Hutch)
that's one way to skin a catJust gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.
that cat will be skinned.that's one way to skin a cat
still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.that cat will be skinned.
I do tinder occasionally. I like a gf thing that we Netflix and chill. Occasionally go out. The connection and intimacy is the most important part.still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.
Hope all is well, didn't think you were on OLD for some reason.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.