mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Screen shot itI should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'Screen shot it
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'
lol
lemmeguess, postwall and cratered smv profile, right?
btw, watched a few more of those girlfriend shows...I get a laugh from them.
a little different flavour than the sex an the c ity shows
That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol....searching for a man good at who would baby sit her cats.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It should read: "Looking for a fool to help me out while I go hunt for d1ck".That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol.
Seriously.Ca
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.Ca
Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
Badoo must be terrible then. My French cousins were using that, yikesIt really is a digital junkyard for past prime puss. I joined last week to see what's what and whilst
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
With enough body game and image to "play"I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.![]()
ya, that's what "man good at massages" means, I guess.She wanted a man to fist her![]()
Do it.With enough body game and image to "play"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Just gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.Do it.
(Said in a Ben Stiller voice from Starsky & Hutch)
that's one way to skin a catJust gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.
that cat will be skinned.that's one way to skin a cat
still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.that cat will be skinned.
I do tinder occasionally. I like a gf thing that we Netflix and chill. Occasionally go out. The connection and intimacy is the most important part.still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.
Hope all is well, didn't think you were on OLD for some reason.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.