mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I should've scree spotted it. A lady was on Tinder searching for a man good at massages and who would baby sit her cats.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Screen shot it
She could have just put a pic of a sign that read 'are you my next bluepilled beta?'
lol
lemmeguess, postwall and cratered smv profile, right?
btw, watched a few more of those girlfriend shows...I get a laugh from them.
a little different flavour than the sex an the c ity shows
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
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Can I put "sex first we'll figure out things later?"
Mike32ct
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That’s the only “puzzy“ he will be getting lol.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It should read: "Looking for a fool to help me out while I go hunt for d1ck".
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
It really is a digital junkyard for past prime puss. I joined last week to see what's what and whilst
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
it's slightly better than Badoo, it's still pretty awful.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Seriously.
I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
Badoo must be terrible then. My French cousins were using that, yikes
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backseatjuan
Banned
She wanted a man to fist her
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With enough body game and image to "play"I'd respond to that to chat at least, if only because the stark honesty and in-your-face dominance would be incredulous.
(I'd be scared asf to reply though, antislut defense is not just a social defense its a physical safety defense)
But women never see that kind of honesty, ffs. In the ad/profile. Not hidden in the messages.
I dare you to put that.
Good luck brother.
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
I'd bet there are some awful ampits on European Badoo.... I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...
I'm feeling queasy thinking about it...ya, that's what "man good at massages" means, I guess.She wanted a man to fist her
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Just gonna walk in a swingers club with a date I have no attachment to. On dating sites tell them what they want to hear and show what they need to see. My original comment is too direct.
that's one way to skin a cat
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
that cat will be skinned.
still would have liked to hear the responses you get to that type of forward profile.
Hope all is well, didn't think you were on OLD for some reason.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I do tinder occasionally. I like a gf thing that we Netflix and chill. Occasionally go out. The connection and intimacy is the most important part.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.