Tinder: Experiences and affect on value

[fri2oct15]

2 part question if any of you have an insight.

Looking at trying tinder to get a couple of fwbs, had one for a couple of weeks but we fell out so she gone.

Feel like when I know I'm getting it regularly, my nightgame is smoother. (Abundance?). And to be honest, right now it just feels rusty as anything.

So, question is this: I have a reputation as a bit of a player. Rightly or wrongly. If my social circle and ex-girls/fwbs see me on Tinder, will my value drop as it may come across as desperate.

Theres a couple of ex-girls/fwbs that I want to see in the future as plates, so don't wanna burn those oppurtunities.

 

[NSX-R]

If they see you on Tinder they might think " since this guy is a player , then why is he on online dating?" Most of people rely on OLD because they can't find any chicks in their area or they have no time to socialize or they are too afraid to approach females.

Usually the last is more common.

 

[fri2oct15]

If they see you on Tinder they might think " since this guy is a player , then why is he on online dating?" Most of people rely on OLD because they can't find any chicks in their area or they have no time to socialize or they are too afraid to approach females.

Usually the last is more common.

Unfortunately I think you're right.

 

[Huffman]

What? If they see you on tinder, they are on tinder as well! In your face (theirs)!

Online dating isn't for chumps anymore these days. It's totally fine if your picture is hot. They may even start fantasizing about you.

 

[NSX-R]

What? If they see you on tinder, they are on tinder as well! In your face (theirs)!

Online dating isn't for chumps anymore these days. It's totally fine if your picture is hot. They may even start fantasizing about you.

How many people do you know that usually judge themselves first and later the others? None

 

[parkthebus]

If you look like someone they'd like to ****, it'll probably just give em competition anxiety.

 

[Huffman]

Yeah. Still I would do it personally. The negative effect would definitely be there if you look like an AFC on the pic so I see your point.

 

[marmel75]

If they see you on Tinder they might think " since this guy is a player , then why is he on online dating?" Most of people rely on OLD because they can't find any chicks in their area or they have no time to socialize or they are too afraid to approach females.

Usually the last is more common.

Or they just like getting easy lays, lol

 

[9asus2]

Bit of a divide here haha.

Gut feeling is it says "can't get girls irl" even if that's not true.

Go with the gut I guess.

 

[marmel75]

Who. Fvcking. Cares.

Women worry about their "rep" and being a "slut". Not guys.

Do what you want OP. Stop thinking like a woman.

 

[NSX-R]

Or they just like getting easy lays, lol

lol, tell me your success rate in OLD. I do know mine,0% xD

 

[marmel75]

lol, tell me your success rate in OLD. I do know mine,0% xD

Never tried tinder..fvcked about 10 women from OLD...