Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This was our generation’s vietnam.
Doesn’t really matter what I think, but the blame game has already started and that Always delays at least a semi-truthful disclosure regarding the cause of any Giant military Clusterfvck …
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
We left Afghanistan smoldering, aren't you watching the videos? Didn't matter. People fighting for a paycheck or college aid are not going to beat people fighting for their country and beliefs.If it was a real war, Afghanistan would still be pock marked or even still smoldering. Being red white and blue should be about what’s best for our country as a whole.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When we should have let them be and told all the unstable countries that if we get hit by their psychos, we will track down the country of origin and rip up all their infrastructure.
Are people really this uninformed? Never mind.
Most of your posts smack of intelligence. However, I have to ask - are you seriously endorsing the official 9/11 narrative?Yet people wonder around like robots. Completely ignorant of their world because they believe the information they are fed and keep driving division. We are weaker now than we have ever been.
The problem is that we involved ourselves there, supported a certain group of people, and now we're abandoning them. Arguably we're leaving them in a worst state than when we came. This is the exact sort of thing the Islamic people hate us for in the first place. This also makes us a look bad on the world stage, and will certainly cause doubt to our allies as to how much we're willing to support them.I think the corporate media and their cronies care a helluva lot more than the American people do. This is not our problem…
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This situation is very similar to what happened in Vietnam. The US didn't need to lose and it would never have lost if they had kept fighting, but at a certain point the American public just considered it too costly and so they gave up and went home.The problem is that we involved ourselves there, supported a certain group of people, and now we're abandoning them. Arguably we're leaving them in a worst state than when we came. This is the exact sort of thing the Islamic people hate us for in the first place. This also makes us a look bad on the world stage, and will certainly cause doubt to our allies as to how much we're willing to support them.
You can say we shouldn't have been there in the first place, but that's a separate question, and doesn't change the situation now.
Not only that but with the helpful Taliban China can get oil directly from Iran through an Afghani pipeline without those pesky Americans in the way.Looks like a win for China... China about to get all those precious metals....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.