Asdfghjklll
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u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
disagree, females don't know what they want. they say that they want one thing, but want something else entirely say something different.Ken785 said:nooo..not that many females on here...
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.Ken785 said:WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!![/B]
all the love penkittenpenkitten said:if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
aww how sweetcomic_relief said:all the love penkitten
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No.Asdfghjklll said:u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.