"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This should be a new section of sosuave.net

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u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nooo..not that many females on here...


WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
 

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Ken785 said:
nooo..not that many females on here...


WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
disagree, females don't know what they want. they say that they want one thing, but want something else entirely say something different.

They are emotionally based creatures.

comic_relief
 

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Ken785 said:
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!![/B]
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.
 

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penkitten said:
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.
all the love penkitten

comic_relief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree! That is after we add a sub forum for Politics, Religion, and Finance.

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no. if u want a woman's perspective, ask one of the ones you talk to. I think most advice from women would be contradictory and pointless
 

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Women don't understand why they want me... They only know that they must have me.

So asking them is pretty useless. Words are cheap.

If you really want to know what women want don't ask them, but observe the type of guys they go after.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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