Asdfghjklll
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u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This should be a new section of sosuave.net
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
nooo..not that many females on here...
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
disagree, females don't know what they want. they say that they want one thing, but want something else entirely say something different.Ken785 said:
They are emotionally based creatures.
comic_relief
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.Ken785 said:
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
all the love penkittenpenkitten said:
comic_relief
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
aww how sweetcomic_relief said:
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
no. if u want a woman's perspective, ask one of the ones you talk to. I think most advice from women would be contradictory and pointless
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
Women don't understand why they want me... They only know that they must have me.
So asking them is pretty useless. Words are cheap.
If you really want to know what women want don't ask them, but observe the type of guys they go after.
So asking them is pretty useless. Words are cheap.
If you really want to know what women want don't ask them, but observe the type of guys they go after.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.