Asdfghjklll
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u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
disagree, females don't know what they want. they say that they want one thing, but want something else entirely say something different.Ken785 said:nooo..not that many females on here...
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.Ken785 said:WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!![/B]
all the love penkittenpenkitten said:if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
aww how sweetcomic_relief said:all the love penkitten
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No.Asdfghjklll said:u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.