Asdfghjklll
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u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
disagree, females don't know what they want. they say that they want one thing, but want something else entirely say something different.Ken785 said:nooo..not that many females on here...
WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!!
if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.Ken785 said:WE SHOULD HAVE ALL THE FEMALE BOARD MEMBERS NAMES HIGHLIGHTED IN PINK TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MALE AND FEMALE!!!![/B]
all the love penkittenpenkitten said:if someone can't look at the name penkitten with the little flowers in my signature and guess that i am a female, then they really need to work on some stuff.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
aww how sweetcomic_relief said:all the love penkitten
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No.Asdfghjklll said:u guys should put a section with a FEMALE'S point of view maybe that'll help?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.