"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This may not mean anything?

Kian_boem

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Hey do u guys think this doesn’t mean anything?
last week in college my friend & i were at lunch and the girl i like was also at lunch too so when i was talking to my friends she came up to me and ask me to hold her notebook because she was going to take a boy in a wheelchair to his class. so i was looking at her from across the room & she caught me looking at her so i looked away. then later when lunch was over i went up to her to give her back her notebook & she said thank u.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dustmuffin

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
 

zekko

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
This is supposed to be a sh!t test or compliance test from women. I've always thought this was paranoia on the part of the PUAs though. Like you're really going to lose all your masculinity if you hold her purse for five minutes? You should never do anyone an act of kindess if they ask? Doesn't change my frame any. Seems paranoid to me.
 

marmel75

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Lmao!

 

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Don't look away next time. Be a man and hold eye contact
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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