"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This may not mean anything?

Kian_boem

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Hey do u guys think this doesn’t mean anything?
last week in college my friend & i were at lunch and the girl i like was also at lunch too so when i was talking to my friends she came up to me and ask me to hold her notebook because she was going to take a boy in a wheelchair to his class. so i was looking at her from across the room & she caught me looking at her so i looked away. then later when lunch was over i went up to her to give her back her notebook & she said thank u.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dustmuffin

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
 

zekko

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
This is supposed to be a sh!t test or compliance test from women. I've always thought this was paranoia on the part of the PUAs though. Like you're really going to lose all your masculinity if you hold her purse for five minutes? You should never do anyone an act of kindess if they ask? Doesn't change my frame any. Seems paranoid to me.
 

marmel75

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Lmao!

 

17 shots

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Don't look away next time. Be a man and hold eye contact
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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