"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This may not mean anything?

Kian_boem

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Hey do u guys think this doesn’t mean anything?
last week in college my friend & i were at lunch and the girl i like was also at lunch too so when i was talking to my friends she came up to me and ask me to hold her notebook because she was going to take a boy in a wheelchair to his class. so i was looking at her from across the room & she caught me looking at her so i looked away. then later when lunch was over i went up to her to give her back her notebook & she said thank u.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dustmuffin

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
 

zekko

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Don't hold things for women. You are not her servant. Never hold a purse or any other items. She should have had wheelchair boy hold it
This is supposed to be a sh!t test or compliance test from women. I've always thought this was paranoia on the part of the PUAs though. Like you're really going to lose all your masculinity if you hold her purse for five minutes? You should never do anyone an act of kindess if they ask? Doesn't change my frame any. Seems paranoid to me.
 

marmel75

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Lmao!

 

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Don't look away next time. Be a man and hold eye contact
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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