MrWood
Master Don Juan
im loaded with confident charm, of course it works... EVERYWHERE
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this is just getting ridiculous now.....
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You ever use Tinder Gold or any of the other paid services?
Match. I use match and get most of my dates and have okay luck from there and the women hotter too. Facebook dating isnt that bad as well and is free but very few choices in these smaller areas.
Kinds suprising with match because of all the gold diggers on there but especially in the summer seems to be pretty good. Right now not much on there since nov. Lots of teachers use match btw.
Tinder gold is a waste. When I have the free one I got a lot more swiping. I suddenly get gold and it goes down. Another poster posted about that too. I almost wonder when you buy gold that happens so you end up paying to boosts. I ain't paying to boost my profile when I already paying for gold.
That's crazy I have a 0 for
That's crazy....I'm not getting any replies.... nothing. My profile is good...I always get compliments on it....moments are active.
That's crazy....I'm not getting any replies.... nothing. My profile is good...I always get compliments on it....moments are active.
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Alight, I just copied your simple opener and spammed out 20 something of them ....I'm pretty sure they either aren't seeing my messages or I'm not seeing theirs for whatever reason.
Alight, I just copied your simple opener and spammed out 20 something of them ....I'm pretty sure they either aren't seeing my messages or I'm not seeing theirs for whatever reason.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
EyeBRollin
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I’m a short bald black guy and I do well for OLD.
Get your pictures professionally done and add 2-3” to your height if you’re less than 6’.
Get your pictures professionally done and add 2-3” to your height if you’re less than 6’.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Being over 50, Tinder Gold would give me 5 super likes a day, this would help my visibility to those who have a 50yo cut-off
BTW, that 20yo I got from Tinder was a "super like". Just saying.
If my options whittle down, I might try.
I am going to be in Aachen, Germany for 2wk working, havent had much success there but also never had a free weekend there either. There is a Instagram lady *43 HB7+ (HB9 on @biggoal scale) thin and blonde... that is hot for me but she is 100mi away... lets see what happens
BTW, that 20yo I got from Tinder was a "super like". Just saying.
If my options whittle down, I might try.
I am going to be in Aachen, Germany for 2wk working, havent had much success there but also never had a free weekend there either. There is a Instagram lady *43 HB7+ (HB9 on @biggoal scale) thin and blonde... that is hot for me but she is 100mi away... lets see what happens
What platform are you using? If you're using Match or Zoosk you can pay extra to see if your messages are marked read or not. If you're using a trash free site like POF it's likely those women assuming real profile are getting simply bombarded by guys.
For match I would pay the extra 5 bucks a month to get the read message feature like I do. Also, match tells you when they view your profile too. It's entirely possible that they have a free account so they're not even seeing your message to reply back to. A lot of women only have a free account to see what's out there and for validation purposes.
As for Tinder like I have problems I'll get a woman who likes me but when I go to message them I rarely get replies which IMO because the way I talk. I treat Tinder like it's match.
When you write to them try pointing things out in their profiles. On Match I've gotten a few dates with pretty hot women because I wrote nice, detailed messages along with compliments and that gets a lot more replies. Lately I've been very busy and write garbage message and reply rate goes way down.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
a self realization (clap clap)
yes, but pick non facts (work or their relationship expectations)
but you get friend-zoned 100% of the time (see my first comment)
Ah. Well I don't know anything about Chinese women and how they behave. Just going by what goes on here in the states and our stuck up women over here.
I think I'm better off sticking with the match type platforms. I just saw a hot 45 year old on Match, petite, nice smile and tight body. I think I will send her a nice, long message. Looks more like 37 though! Maybe old pics.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Doesn't matter what time lol...I sent about 30 put before 10 pm. I'm convinced my app has a problem.
Lol u sure do like older chicks
That's all there is that is decent looking on OLD within 60 miles. Ones late 30s and under not very many and most of them land whales. A hot 40 year old is better than a 28 year old Land Whale. although there are posters who state on here they'd take a 25 year old tight land whale over a hot 40 year old.
That's true...I'm talking to a nice 39 year old milf rn.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
this is funny... you two.
My plate rotation average age right now is between 34-38, and Im 20yr older than 'yall.
come on bro's, you can do better.
I had a possible date / stay over with the 25yo (her trip), but she had other plans with girlfriend.
I replied with 2 wineglass and 2 dancing girls emoji.(which she hearted)
so ball in her court.
(I will invite the 34yo Russian-Mongolian mix over again from StPete, a 3hr train ride for her. She likes the way I bang, but i only give her a 50% effort because her body is only HB6+... and she wants to fall in love with me, which I dont want)
@zinc4 try "Tan-Tan" app.
My plate rotation average age right now is between 34-38, and Im 20yr older than 'yall.
come on bro's, you can do better.
I had a possible date / stay over with the 25yo (her trip), but she had other plans with girlfriend.
I replied with 2 wineglass and 2 dancing girls emoji.(which she hearted)
so ball in her court.
(I will invite the 34yo Russian-Mongolian mix over again from StPete, a 3hr train ride for her. She likes the way I bang, but i only give her a 50% effort because her body is only HB6+... and she wants to fall in love with me, which I dont want)
@zinc4 try "Tan-Tan" app.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.