MrWood
Master Don Juan
im loaded with confident charm, of course it works... EVERYWHERE
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
this is just getting ridiculous now.....
- Thread starter derby1
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You ever use Tinder Gold or any of the other paid services?
Match. I use match and get most of my dates and have okay luck from there and the women hotter too. Facebook dating isnt that bad as well and is free but very few choices in these smaller areas.
Kinds suprising with match because of all the gold diggers on there but especially in the summer seems to be pretty good. Right now not much on there since nov. Lots of teachers use match btw.
Tinder gold is a waste. When I have the free one I got a lot more swiping. I suddenly get gold and it goes down. Another poster posted about that too. I almost wonder when you buy gold that happens so you end up paying to boosts. I ain't paying to boost my profile when I already paying for gold.
That's crazy I have a 0 for
That's crazy....I'm not getting any replies.... nothing. My profile is good...I always get compliments on it....moments are active.
That's crazy....I'm not getting any replies.... nothing. My profile is good...I always get compliments on it....moments are active.
Al
Alight, I just copied your simple opener and spammed out 20 something of them ....I'm pretty sure they either aren't seeing my messages or I'm not seeing theirs for whatever reason.
Alight, I just copied your simple opener and spammed out 20 something of them ....I'm pretty sure they either aren't seeing my messages or I'm not seeing theirs for whatever reason.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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I’m a short bald black guy and I do well for OLD.
Get your pictures professionally done and add 2-3” to your height if you’re less than 6’.
Get your pictures professionally done and add 2-3” to your height if you’re less than 6’.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Being over 50, Tinder Gold would give me 5 super likes a day, this would help my visibility to those who have a 50yo cut-off
BTW, that 20yo I got from Tinder was a "super like". Just saying.
If my options whittle down, I might try.
I am going to be in Aachen, Germany for 2wk working, havent had much success there but also never had a free weekend there either. There is a Instagram lady *43 HB7+ (HB9 on @biggoal scale) thin and blonde... that is hot for me but she is 100mi away... lets see what happens
BTW, that 20yo I got from Tinder was a "super like". Just saying.
If my options whittle down, I might try.
I am going to be in Aachen, Germany for 2wk working, havent had much success there but also never had a free weekend there either. There is a Instagram lady *43 HB7+ (HB9 on @biggoal scale) thin and blonde... that is hot for me but she is 100mi away... lets see what happens
What platform are you using? If you're using Match or Zoosk you can pay extra to see if your messages are marked read or not. If you're using a trash free site like POF it's likely those women assuming real profile are getting simply bombarded by guys.
For match I would pay the extra 5 bucks a month to get the read message feature like I do. Also, match tells you when they view your profile too. It's entirely possible that they have a free account so they're not even seeing your message to reply back to. A lot of women only have a free account to see what's out there and for validation purposes.
As for Tinder like I have problems I'll get a woman who likes me but when I go to message them I rarely get replies which IMO because the way I talk. I treat Tinder like it's match.
When you write to them try pointing things out in their profiles. On Match I've gotten a few dates with pretty hot women because I wrote nice, detailed messages along with compliments and that gets a lot more replies. Lately I've been very busy and write garbage message and reply rate goes way down.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
a self realization (clap clap)
yes, but pick non facts (work or their relationship expectations)
but you get friend-zoned 100% of the time (see my first comment)
Ah. Well I don't know anything about Chinese women and how they behave. Just going by what goes on here in the states and our stuck up women over here.
I think I'm better off sticking with the match type platforms. I just saw a hot 45 year old on Match, petite, nice smile and tight body. I think I will send her a nice, long message. Looks more like 37 though! Maybe old pics.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Doesn't matter what time lol...I sent about 30 put before 10 pm. I'm convinced my app has a problem.
Lol u sure do like older chicks
That's all there is that is decent looking on OLD within 60 miles. Ones late 30s and under not very many and most of them land whales. A hot 40 year old is better than a 28 year old Land Whale. although there are posters who state on here they'd take a 25 year old tight land whale over a hot 40 year old.
That's true...I'm talking to a nice 39 year old milf rn.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
this is funny... you two.
My plate rotation average age right now is between 34-38, and Im 20yr older than 'yall.
come on bro's, you can do better.
I had a possible date / stay over with the 25yo (her trip), but she had other plans with girlfriend.
I replied with 2 wineglass and 2 dancing girls emoji.(which she hearted)
so ball in her court.
(I will invite the 34yo Russian-Mongolian mix over again from StPete, a 3hr train ride for her. She likes the way I bang, but i only give her a 50% effort because her body is only HB6+... and she wants to fall in love with me, which I dont want)
@zinc4 try "Tan-Tan" app.
My plate rotation average age right now is between 34-38, and Im 20yr older than 'yall.
come on bro's, you can do better.
I had a possible date / stay over with the 25yo (her trip), but she had other plans with girlfriend.
I replied with 2 wineglass and 2 dancing girls emoji.(which she hearted)
so ball in her court.
(I will invite the 34yo Russian-Mongolian mix over again from StPete, a 3hr train ride for her. She likes the way I bang, but i only give her a 50% effort because her body is only HB6+... and she wants to fall in love with me, which I dont want)
@zinc4 try "Tan-Tan" app.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.