Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

this is just getting ridiculous now.....

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so I work a couple of nights a week i also have my daughter a couple of nights, this makes my spare time limited
I've built a little comfort and rapport with 3 new chics recently, and ofcourse they've done a bit of their predictable Fckery in the mating dance.

however i've met all 3 chics in the last month..., 2 were morbidly obese from the hips down, .Total Bugal whales, who looked fine as hell in pics

and the 3rd chic was just an immature materialistic gremlins armpit,...

isnt anyone else starting to feel fed up with all this? surely its just not worth it ?

im glad im not the old blue pill boy i was, because i would have given these women 10x more time and attention, and id be angry as **** at whats turned up
Sure, sometimes you can be caught off guard but "morbidly obese"? No chance. You've to be better at spotting them. It's not hard to do through pictures, check arms, if they only have close up pictures of their face etc. It's impossible to hide if you know what to look for, it will save you time in the future.
But OLD should only be a compliment anyway, so expectations are low. Don't blame the game, wish you were better.
 

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I still don't get how at your age and with your visible disability get all these girls off OLD and decent ones while most everyone on this forum is way younger than you and all struggle to gain traction on OLD.
1. Im a charming m0therf'cker
2. I have a natural age style of a 35yo
3. Im not fat, however not tall which kills me at times (im 5'8)
4. I am romantic, sexual and forward in a non needy way
5. I learned about my (beta style) mistakes and changed them [thanks SoSuave]
6. I learned about basic womans behavior and how to respond [thanks SoSuave and D.Snyder]
7. I strengthened my kino game
8. Ive always had a complimented smile and dreamy blue eyes [thanks mom and dad]
9. Im not afraid to flirt, and not afraid to flirt with younger women
10. Im a situational flirter (daygame), not a "beautiful baby baby" or pick-up-line one

<<<< should I go on? >>>>
 

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Don't blame the game, wish you were better.
i live in a town, in the Uk................. nothing like america, everyone knows each other, all good women took from high school and wifed up
 

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i live in a town, in the Uk................. nothing like america, everyone knows each other, all good women took from high school and wifed up
And they are cvcking their husbands with any and everyone?
 

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1. Im a charming m0therf'cker
2. I have a natural age style of a 35yo
3. Im not fat, however not tall which kills me at times (im 5'8)
4. I am romantic, sexual and forward in a non needy way
5. I learned about my (beta style) mistakes and changed them [thanks SoSuave]
6. I learned about basic womans behavior and how to respond [thanks SoSuave and D.Snyder]
7. I strengthened my kino game
8. Ive always had a complimented smile and dreamy blue eyes [thanks mom and dad]
9. Im not afraid to flirt, and not afraid to flirt with younger women
10. Im a situational flirter (daygame), not a "beautiful baby baby" or pick-up-line one

<<<< should I go on? >>>>
So I guess the key with you is a very very good opening message when messaging someone. Not a Hey, what's up like many guys do. What about an app like Tinder where they only go by pics and see you're quite older and have the dead arm. How woudl that even interest a hottie who's younger?

Btw on OLD, why is it women will look at your profile multiple times but won't reply? Like you message one. She reads your message, views your profile but doesn't reply. Then like she views your profile 3 more times over the next 5 hours.

Is she trying to compare you to others when deciding who to show interest in? Sometimes I'll reply back with a bit flirty reply like "I see you peeking or don't be shy" and sometimes that works with them and they start talking to you.

That's the thing. Obviously if you get women looking at your profile even without writing them the first message it means they obviously don't find you repulsive or ugly but just don't have a wow factor in your profile bio or interests they're looking for. Need to find the missing piece that puts it over the top.

A lot of these women demand you be well traveled and travel a lot. How can you compete with them if you can't take uber expensive vacations twice a year like they do? Do they end up just going for a beta buxxer to fund their fun?
 

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WeChat is pretty amazing.

Shake it and you're directly linked to some lonely chick that's also being doing the same.

Really popular in Asia and a must in China.
 

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WeChat is pretty amazing.

Shake it and you're directly linked to some lonely chick that's also being doing the same.

Really popular in Asia and a must in China.
We don't have nearly as many good options in the US. Match LLC holds a monopoly on everything.
WeChat is pretty amazing.

Shake it and you're directly linked to some lonely chick that's also being doing the same.

Really popular in Asia and a must in China.
Why don't we have this good stuff in the states?
 

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If you live in an area in USA that has many Chinese, WeChat is still great.
LA/NYC should be very good.

btw: I got about 6 dates and 3 lays using "who is nearby" and striking up a convo
(one literally took an hour... HB8 29yo was at the Airport hotel... invited me over, badaboom baddabang)

great stuff
 

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If you live in an area in USA that has many Chinese, WeChat is still great.
LA/NYC should be very good.

btw: I got about 6 dates and 3 lays using "who is nearby" and striking up a convo
(one literally took an hour... HB8 29yo was at the Airport hotel... invited me over, badaboom baddabang)

great stuff
I guess that wouldn't work here LOL. The only Asian chicks is an old one at the Chinese take out. I've only seen one Japanese girl around here. The major OLD sites have literally no Asians on there on a regular daily basis within 60 miles around here.

Because if there was I would be all over them. I would expect the West Coast like San Fran, LA to have tons of hot Korean girls. Again I'd be all over them.
 

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We don't have nearly as many good options in the US. Match LLC holds a monopoly on everything.


Why don't we have this good stuff in the states?
I use both WhatsApp and WeChat.

WeChat is obviously superior in terms of connecting with people even if u r in a simple coffee shop and a few feet away are a few chicks that you could connect directly with or them with you. Just click on an option and you're good to go. A really lazy man's tool.

WhatsApp is superior in terms of secrecy, hard to crack and offers protection, used mainly as a business tool.
 

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I use both WhatsApp and WeChat.

WeChat is obviously superior in terms of connecting with people even if u r in a simple coffee shop and a few feet away are a few chicks that you could connect directly with or them with you. Just click on an option and you're good to go. A really lazy man's tool.

WhatsApp is superior in terms of secrecy, hard to crack and offers protection, used mainly as a business tool.
I know about Whatsapp. So Wechat is a Chinese app I see. So do they spy on you in China on these apps? I wonder what they use in North Korea for OLD?

I have an obsession for those Moranbong girls. I would just so plow them. If I went on one of those North Korean tours what would they do if you tried hitting on a Moranbong girl like HB9 Jo Kuk-hyang? she's a 21 year old mega hottie in the band.
 

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I know about Whatsapp. So Wechat is a Chinese app I see. So do they spy on you in China on these apps? I wonder what they use in North Korea for OLD?

I have an obsession for those Moranbong girls. I would just so plow them. If I went on one of those North Korean tours what would they do if you tried hitting on a Moranbong girl like HB9 Jo Kuk-hyang? she's a 21 year old mega hottie in the band.
John Chinaman has access to that app.

So if you were in China, best not to talk bad shiet abt their commie policies whilst there.

Otherwise everything else is fair game.

As for Chinese women in big cities like Shanghai, everyone can get women provided they don't act like a total nerd, are well groomed and have some decent extra cash to throw about.

You could be any color or any race from any country and you'd still slay if u hv the right mojo. Same goes with anywhere actually, western countries is relatively easier but not by much.

BG, the current you right now, I fear might need more then just WeChat.

Try using up some loose change and hire an escort.

1st get rid of that 35 year old virginity and upgrade that 13 year old mentality into perhaps a 22 years old at least.

Use those women to level up. Pay up and consider it an educational experience.

Then come back here and tell us of ur exploits.
 

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Dude how are
WeChat is pretty amazing.

Shake it and you're directly linked to some lonely chick that's also being doing the same.

Really popular in Asia and a must in China.
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Okay....how are you guys using WeChat shake???? I live in Shenzen but everytime I shake it pulls up people from thousands of KM away. Then I use the find people nearby option and just a few people come up but no one replies to my messages....doubt they even see them. And I have a very good profile pic.
 

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So I guess the key with you is a very very good opening message when messaging someone. Not a Hey, what's up like many guys do. What about an app like Tinder where they only go by pics and see you're quite older and have the dead arm. How woudl that even interest a hottie who's younger?

Btw on OLD, why is it women will look at your profile multiple times but won't reply? Like you message one. She reads your message, views your profile but doesn't reply. Then like she views your profile 3 more times over the next 5 hours.

Is she trying to compare you to others when deciding who to show interest in? Sometimes I'll reply back with a bit flirty reply like "I see you peeking or don't be shy" and sometimes that works with them and they start talking to you.

That's the thing. Obviously if you get women looking at your profile even without writing them the first message it means they obviously don't find you repulsive or ugly but just don't have a wow factor in your profile bio or interests they're looking for. Need to find the missing piece that puts it over the top.

A lot of these women demand you be well traveled and travel a lot. How can you compete with them if you can't take uber expensive vacations twice a year like they do? Do they end up just going for a beta buxxer to fund their fun?
Here is a thought.
Why don't you focus your energy on something more productive than OLD? You will still have to meet the women you get a date with.
OLD is not rocket science or some magic formula. It's:
1) Frame
2) Good pictures

But your online SMV vill never be true to your real SMV, that's why it should only be a compliment to a man's dating life if you don't want to fight an uphill battle.
 

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Okay....how are you guys using WeChat shake
I have "shake" turned off and "who is nearby" turned on

click:
App, WeChat, Discover, People Nearby

tip: keep your "moments" up-to-date and interesting
 

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Dude how are



Okay....how are you guys using WeChat shake???? I live in Shenzen but everytime I shake it pulls up people from thousands of KM away. Then I use the find people nearby option and just a few people come up but no one replies to my messages....doubt they even see them. And I have a very good profile pic.
It was a novelty back in the day when WeChat was a hit.

Everyone was using it, kinda fun thing to do you know, but it soon lost stream amongst the users.

At least it was for me now.

There's a function that you need to on and the other party (thats near you) has to do the same - I think you know which one.

But if the girl beside you doesn't fancy you then obviously you ain't getting anything...
 

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I have "shake" turned off and "who is nearby" turned on

click:
App, WeChat, Discover, People Nearby

tip: keep your "moments" up-to-date and interesting
The app is incredibly user friendly, date friendly, hook up friendly, getting to know strangers friendly, etc.
 

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spam out your greeting, see replies, profit!

"Hello! My name is MrWood, nice to meet you"

^^^ high response rate ^^^
 

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spam out your greeting, see replies, profit!

"Hello! My name is MrWood, nice to meet you"

^^^ high response rate ^^^
I just dont see that working in the states unless you're a big time chad or loaded with gobs of money (gold digger) in your profile.
 
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