One can argue that it is almost impossible for a woman to be internally validated. Especially with the way society is set up. Maybe back in the 1990’s it was possibly for Jennie from the block to exist. You know, the beauty girl who shows up and time seems to stop, all the boys stare, and only a rare guy would get her attention. She’s slightly cut above the rest and doesn’t need anyone’s validation and attention.
In 2019 Jennie has 10000 Instagram followers and marriage proposals from actual celebrities. She doesn’t know her left from the right anymore. There is no internal light emanating from within. It’s all external superficiality. No inner beauty. Just pearls on a pig.
The best of the best you can get from American society are monkey branchers. These are top 10% women. They still value romance and relationships. But they can easily swing from one branch to the next.
There used to be an argument that the beautiful internally validated girl still exists. But it’s like sighting Bigfoot.
I personally think In order to find these women, you have to be a great man yourself. You can only find it through synchronicity, serendipity, and manifestation. You’re not going to find her on any app or night club.
Your best bet is a self improvement activity. Like yoga or something.
But at the end of the day, a man should be beyond romance and about seeking that internal validation. And if he finds romance, great. If he doesn’t, he’s still self fulfilled anyway.
The mark of a man should not be how many attention wh0res he can get. Women should not be a measurement of anything. Women can be in love with serial killers and fvckboys. Their validation should not define a man.
The only validation that counts is admiration from a beautiful woman inside and out.