You know, I was going to defend you against a few members who are pretty much going over the line in what they're saying to you, because you seem like a very good-natured guy and you don't retaliate (although it would be understandable if you did). You also demonstrate that you are here to learn. All great things.
However, this statement is off the charts inappropriate on several levels. You should NEVER beg a woman, ever. Just as a matter of principle. This is demeaning to you.
Secondly, she has clearly said no, and you need to accept that. Please don't continue to pursue this with her on the forum, publicly or privately. I'm sure she got your hopes up before she changed her mind, and I get that, but this is the typical flakiness of women. They have great difficulty making decisions and even greater difficulty sticking with them once they're made.
She's a good egg and I understand why you would want to meet up, but she said no and as a man you need to accept that and mentally move on. Asking a woman, "Please [this or that]..." is incredibly weak and a complete turnoff to them.
Your a good guy, my dude, and I respect the fact that you're trying to figure this stuff out. You might do well to read the Book of Pook. Have you read that yet? It can be life-changing.