THIS is exactly how to overcome fear of approaching women!!

[JayCamx23]

last 3 weekends ive had to work...and couldnt go out sarging. tonight im off, and im more eager than normal to go talk to chicks.

 

[wayword]

Actually, this is a great idea. Essentially, cut out all the extra stimulus that does nothing but waste your time (no return on your investment). Which will then force you to go out and find it in real-life activities and real-life interactions with real people.

 

[KoalaKing]

Gunwitch, may as well become a Minister of a Pentecostal Christian Church, with those type of teachings.

How could Masturbation possibly make a guy frightened of approaching a gorgeous girl, how ridiculous.

As far as not watching TV and Surfing The Internet goes, what is the point of only chasing the hot babes to relieve you of the boredom of which you have forced upon yourself.

There are many other pleasures in my life that I wish to enjoy appart from my obtaining of beautiful woman, as much as I love to Fu-ck the living daylights out of a cute young woman, I still wish to enjoy lifes many other pleasures.

It isn't my desire to only chase woman, I wish to live my life to the full in many other ways as well. :crackup:

 

[skip2mylou781]

masturbation doesnt frighten a guy, it just makes him not CARE ENOUGH to approach women, thus resulting in missed approach opportunities

 

[KoalaKing]

What about if a guy didn't wish to approach or be with any hot babe for a certain time in his life.

I can't understand why a guy would want to be with a hot babe every night of the week, there are times when you just want to be alone and do other things by yourself at home.

I don't desire to make an obsession of constantly having to approach and be with a hot babe in every second of the day.

If I desire sex then I do that, if I want to play games on my computer that is what I do, if I don't want to leave my home then I don't, for me being with a hot babe should be an enjoyable thing, not an addiction that I have to be doing all of the time, too much of anything no matter how awesome it may be will become very boring if you feel that you have to be doing it continuously.

 

[skip781]

another extreme tip for those with approach anxiety...........if u got too many options besides approaching, THEN GET RID OF THEM@

 

[Doggystyle]

another extreme tip for those with approach anxiety...........if u got too many options besides approaching, THEN GET RID OF THEM@

Not sure what you mean by "too many options beside approaching", i'm guessing you mean drinking or just talking to your friends instead of actually going up to the girl and going for what you actually want...is this right?


On a seperate note speaking of gunwitch, it made me laugh in toecutters take the piss repsonse to a gunwitch post over on fastseduction

act macho like the Preditor, dont use humour just
look at her with a hard-on in your trousers

Ok back to my thoughts on the original post, I can see where you are coming from skip on the make your life boring, if thats what it takes to get the motivation to go for it, then thats what it takes. I could see that it would motivate you to sort it out. But on the other hand if you make your life boring then you become boring, notice how when people say "they are boring", they are not saying that what the person is saying is boring, they are implying that the actual person is boring. You could lie and make up some cool stories that you haven't done, but you could easily see through them.

But it is those times in the past when i have found life boring that actually got me up off my ass and started achieving. But now I look back at those times and think "never again am I going back to that state" and so i keep pushing forward, and i have decided now to always just push forward.

The key is to be happy but never satisfied, keep pushing forward always.

 

[skip781]

doggystyle - in my original post, i guess i need to reiterate - lets hope your life is somewhat interesting in the first place, and THEN if u have too much anxiety to want to approach and meet new women, you should eliminate things that take up your time, such as TV, internet, ect ect.....essentially, make urself too bored to stay home (takes alot of willpower), and then just GO OUT!

 

[Doggystyle]

doggystyle - in my original post, i guess i need to reiterate - lets hope your life is somewhat interesting in the first place, and THEN if u have too much anxiety to want to approach and meet new women, you should eliminate things that take up your time, such as TV, internet, ect ect.....essentially, make urself too bored to stay home (takes alot of willpower), and then just GO OUT!

Yeah skip i see what you mean, eliminate the time wasting stuff (TV, porn etc...) that won't really get you anywhere and get out do what you need to do

 

[Ice Cold]

1)masturbating
2)watching tv
3)surfing internet
4)chatting on the phone with friendes
5)just hanging out with friends (might be a stretch)

Regardless of the motivation, you shouldn't spend too much time doing these things. You should be improving yourself instead

Good tip

 

[Zebedee]

If you have a boring life then you become a boring person and what woman in there right mind what want to date or fvck a boring guy. Boredom can lead to depression and depressed people generally dont make good PUA's. Make self improvement a motivation in life and don't rely on TV, Wanking etc to get through life but to eliminate these things completely is ridiculous. People should lead an active life, exercising, trying new things being sociable but you cant do these things 24/7 so a bit of TV aint gonna hurt. To say whether you watch TV or not will have much of an impact on whether or not you pick up girls is naive.

 

[Zwitterion]

This is advice is WEAK but MAYBE if I just TALK LIKE THIS I'll be able TO get my POINT ACROSS so everyone reading this WILL think I know what I"M TALKING about JUST like Pook.

 

[MissionX]

This thread is kind of useless, I most certainly would not want to go out picking up girls if I am bored. Seems kind of pointless altogether, Why go at half mass when you get go pumped and ready at full capacity. Which do you really think is more effective and effeciant. (sp?) Personally Full capacity is a keeper. Especially if you in the mood.

Payne

 

[Lust]

I don't think thats a good idea.

I don't think it's worth it.

Do you really want to speak to women, and tell them you do absolutely nothing fun in your life?

For what? To have the balls to approach them?

I think even if you did do this, you will become a more boring person in general.

Just try some confidence building materials or something, i personally don't think this is worth the effort.

And i sure as hell aren't going to try it.

 

[Raikojo17]

I don't think thats a good idea.

I don't think it's worth it.

Do you really want to speak to women, and tell them you do absolutely nothing fun in your life?

For what? To have the balls to approach them?

I think even if you did do this, you will become a more boring person in general.

Just try some confidence building materials or something, i personally don't think this is worth the effort.

And i sure as hell aren't going to try it.

skip ment temporary bordum, not becoming boring. if ur bored for one day, that doesnt make u boring. i've used this tip loads of times before i even read it and it worked for me because it got me extremely pumped it talk to women.

it's basically just finding sumthing else to do when u have nothing else to do. only this sumthing will be alot more fun and actually help u, unlike surfing the net or watching TV.