"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One thing that people probably won't comment on but is probably needed on this forum and others...

White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.

Learn this.
 

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uber pedestalising!
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.

fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."

really???
 

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betheman said:
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."

really???
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.

Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
 

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FairShake said:
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.

Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
no Im white British. you referring to the BBC? ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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betheman said:
no Im white British. you referring to the BBC? ;)
That plays a part I guess.

But many Black dudes think White women are all hos and many Black women think all White guys are tricks (using their vernacular). It's good to know that stereotype exists and look out for it.
 

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yeah I agree with white guys being a soft touch for the most part, think a lot of white women see them this way too.
 
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It's interesting that FairShake brought up the dynamic of white men/black women. I'm now seeing a trend of black women around the age of 20's to 30's, dating primarily out of their race because they feel that they will get treated better. My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you. The white guys have heard the child support nightmares most brothas go through, or the gold digger stories. Even though it's not true of all black women, if you hear enough of it you take it as gospel. Even though shark attacks to human are extremely rare the fear is still there from movies and imagery to keep your a$s out of deep waters.

Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Not to be racist but I have dated 3 black women and they all grew up without a father and had immense daddy issues and problems due to that. Sex with black women is great and like you've never had before.
 

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BlackEricNorthman said:
My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you.
Yeah, that too.
 
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