MatureDJ
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This is an omega male
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
One thing that people probably won't comment on but is probably needed on this forum and others...
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
uber pedestalising!
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.betheman said:
Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That plays a part I guess.betheman said:no Im white British. you referring to the BBC?
But many Black dudes think White women are all hos and many Black women think all White guys are tricks (using their vernacular). It's good to know that stereotype exists and look out for it.
scrouds
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Did I read that right? 7k pounds for that?
BlackEricNorthman
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It's interesting that FairShake brought up the dynamic of white men/black women. I'm now seeing a trend of black women around the age of 20's to 30's, dating primarily out of their race because they feel that they will get treated better. My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you. The white guys have heard the child support nightmares most brothas go through, or the gold digger stories. Even though it's not true of all black women, if you hear enough of it you take it as gospel. Even though shark attacks to human are extremely rare the fear is still there from movies and imagery to keep your a$s out of deep waters.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
QuadDeuces
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Not to be racist but I have dated 3 black women and they all grew up without a father and had immense daddy issues and problems due to that. Sex with black women is great and like you've never had before.