MatureDJ
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is an omega male
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
One thing that people probably won't comment on but is probably needed on this forum and others...
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
uber pedestalising!
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.betheman said:
Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That plays a part I guess.betheman said:no Im white British. you referring to the BBC?
But many Black dudes think White women are all hos and many Black women think all White guys are tricks (using their vernacular). It's good to know that stereotype exists and look out for it.
scrouds
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Did I read that right? 7k pounds for that?
BlackEricNorthman
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It's interesting that FairShake brought up the dynamic of white men/black women. I'm now seeing a trend of black women around the age of 20's to 30's, dating primarily out of their race because they feel that they will get treated better. My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you. The white guys have heard the child support nightmares most brothas go through, or the gold digger stories. Even though it's not true of all black women, if you hear enough of it you take it as gospel. Even though shark attacks to human are extremely rare the fear is still there from movies and imagery to keep your a$s out of deep waters.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
Not to be racist but I have dated 3 black women and they all grew up without a father and had immense daddy issues and problems due to that. Sex with black women is great and like you've never had before.