MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.betheman said:fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
no Im white British. you referring to the BBC?FairShake said:Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.
Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That plays a part I guess.betheman said:no Im white British. you referring to the BBC?![]()
This is an omega male
YupButler, a lonely bachelor, had been a respected musician who played the organ at his local church.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah, that too.BlackEricNorthman said:My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you.