MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
One thing that people probably won't comment on but is probably needed on this forum and others...
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them.
Learn this.
uber pedestalising!
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
hope the old dame gets the house back, after all it was technically stolen from her.
fairshake...
"White guys will sometimes tell me how Black women are into them. They will brag about this. Just know that in many, possibly most, cases they are into your wallet and will try to get all of it they can. Most Black women are about as into White guys as most White guys are into them."
really???
Absolutely. White men and women let political correctness and profound naiveté about Black people get in the way of good old fashioned common sense.betheman said:
Certainly not all are like that but the numbers are high enough that you need to operate with care in the beginning. I assume you are Black right? You know what the conversations are like when we aren't around...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That plays a part I guess.betheman said:no Im white British. you referring to the BBC?
But many Black dudes think White women are all hos and many Black women think all White guys are tricks (using their vernacular). It's good to know that stereotype exists and look out for it.
scrouds
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Did I read that right? 7k pounds for that?
BlackEricNorthman
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It's interesting that FairShake brought up the dynamic of white men/black women. I'm now seeing a trend of black women around the age of 20's to 30's, dating primarily out of their race because they feel that they will get treated better. My opinion has always been that yeah the white guy will fuyck you, even date you but he isn't even trying to marry you. The white guys have heard the child support nightmares most brothas go through, or the gold digger stories. Even though it's not true of all black women, if you hear enough of it you take it as gospel. Even though shark attacks to human are extremely rare the fear is still there from movies and imagery to keep your a$s out of deep waters.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
Hell I got a white friend who has only dated black chicks for the 7 or 9 years I've known him. He even dated his last black girlfriend for 5 years. He claimed to love her, they were in Vegas last year and passed by one of those "drive-thru" marriage places and he froze up. They broke up a month later. He starts dating a white girl last year. Sent me a text three days ago saying he just proposed to her. I couldn't hate. I'm more surprised he is getting married than I am surprised he is marrying within his race.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
QuadDeuces
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Not to be racist but I have dated 3 black women and they all grew up without a father and had immense daddy issues and problems due to that. Sex with black women is great and like you've never had before.