"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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afternoon all from sunny england!.

I have posted about this girl before, a barmaid (not ideal I know).
Anyway I only look at her as a friend now, played squash with her a few times

Last weekedn I was in the bar watching the live music and she came upto me for a quick chat. In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she
thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?. I said no way.


This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Jez
This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
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I hate how insulting it feels when women take the indirect sarcastic approach.

It means she feels no attraction for you, and that you don't act man enough for her. She probably was even once open to you two once having sex at some point, that's the sad thing.
 
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how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
 
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Originally posted by Mystic
how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
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Well Sherlock, what do you think it means?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Jez
In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?
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Maybe you should be bold and confident instead of shy and quiet. Then women won't mention it to you. :rolleyes:

When she said that she thinks like a man... You should've asked her: "how do men think?"

"What does that mean?"

Just have the balls to fukkin clarify what she meant. Maybe she means that she's getting turned on visually, just like men do :D

Don't stall. You were so afraid it was rejection, you didn't even bother to clarify. Boo hoo hoo. Your fragile ego is at stake.

Work on that.
 
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point, i am shy but confident with it. she still still likes me
 
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She is trying to tell you "Why don't you ask me out - must I be the masculine one and approach you?

Ask her out!!!!
 
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turn up the ****y and funny and kino a million notches!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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