"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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afternoon all from sunny england!.

I have posted about this girl before, a barmaid (not ideal I know).
Anyway I only look at her as a friend now, played squash with her a few times

Last weekedn I was in the bar watching the live music and she came upto me for a quick chat. In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she
thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?. I said no way.


This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jez
This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
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I hate how insulting it feels when women take the indirect sarcastic approach.

It means she feels no attraction for you, and that you don't act man enough for her. She probably was even once open to you two once having sex at some point, that's the sad thing.
 
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how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
 
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Originally posted by Mystic
how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
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Well Sherlock, what do you think it means?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Jez
In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?
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Maybe you should be bold and confident instead of shy and quiet. Then women won't mention it to you. :rolleyes:

When she said that she thinks like a man... You should've asked her: "how do men think?"

"What does that mean?"

Just have the balls to fukkin clarify what she meant. Maybe she means that she's getting turned on visually, just like men do :D

Don't stall. You were so afraid it was rejection, you didn't even bother to clarify. Boo hoo hoo. Your fragile ego is at stake.

Work on that.
 
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point, i am shy but confident with it. she still still likes me
 
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She is trying to tell you "Why don't you ask me out - must I be the masculine one and approach you?

Ask her out!!!!
 
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turn up the ****y and funny and kino a million notches!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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