"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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afternoon all from sunny england!.

I have posted about this girl before, a barmaid (not ideal I know).
Anyway I only look at her as a friend now, played squash with her a few times

Last weekedn I was in the bar watching the live music and she came upto me for a quick chat. In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she
thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?. I said no way.


This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Jez
This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
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I hate how insulting it feels when women take the indirect sarcastic approach.

It means she feels no attraction for you, and that you don't act man enough for her. She probably was even once open to you two once having sex at some point, that's the sad thing.
 
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how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
 
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Titus

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Originally posted by Mystic
how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
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Well Sherlock, what do you think it means?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Jez
In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?
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Maybe you should be bold and confident instead of shy and quiet. Then women won't mention it to you. :rolleyes:

When she said that she thinks like a man... You should've asked her: "how do men think?"

"What does that mean?"

Just have the balls to fukkin clarify what she meant. Maybe she means that she's getting turned on visually, just like men do :D

Don't stall. You were so afraid it was rejection, you didn't even bother to clarify. Boo hoo hoo. Your fragile ego is at stake.

Work on that.
 
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point, i am shy but confident with it. she still still likes me
 
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She is trying to tell you "Why don't you ask me out - must I be the masculine one and approach you?

Ask her out!!!!
 
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turn up the ****y and funny and kino a million notches!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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