"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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afternoon all from sunny england!.

I have posted about this girl before, a barmaid (not ideal I know).
Anyway I only look at her as a friend now, played squash with her a few times

Last weekedn I was in the bar watching the live music and she came upto me for a quick chat. In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she
thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?. I said no way.


This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Jez
This has got me thinking what is she saying?. I have no balls presumably.
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I hate how insulting it feels when women take the indirect sarcastic approach.

It means she feels no attraction for you, and that you don't act man enough for her. She probably was even once open to you two once having sex at some point, that's the sad thing.
 
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how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
 
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Originally posted by Mystic
how bout when woman constantly ask if youre gay what the hell does that mean?
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Well Sherlock, what do you think it means?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Jez
In the conversation she mentioned that I seem so shy and quiet, and went on to say she thinks like a man. She then said to me, do you think like a women?
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Maybe you should be bold and confident instead of shy and quiet. Then women won't mention it to you. :rolleyes:

When she said that she thinks like a man... You should've asked her: "how do men think?"

"What does that mean?"

Just have the balls to fukkin clarify what she meant. Maybe she means that she's getting turned on visually, just like men do :D

Don't stall. You were so afraid it was rejection, you didn't even bother to clarify. Boo hoo hoo. Your fragile ego is at stake.

Work on that.
 
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point, i am shy but confident with it. she still still likes me
 
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She is trying to tell you "Why don't you ask me out - must I be the masculine one and approach you?

Ask her out!!!!
 
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turn up the ****y and funny and kino a million notches!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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