“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JohnChops

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How do you stop yourself from overthinking/ thinking to.hard about.something that is easy? I always think everything.is.some complicated route but in reality its as.simple as plug in play. How do I stop?! (Sorry for the periods my phone hates me)
 

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Tell yourself it's simple.

Keep telling yourself that it's no big deal, easy, simple, etc.

Your mind will slowly move away from over thinking about that issue.

You will need to do this anytime you catch yourself over thinking. It only works for specific situations. It's not a general (global) cure for over thinking.

I use this a lot.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Tell yourself it's simple.

Keep telling yourself that it's no big deal, easy, simple, etc.

Your mind will slowly move away from over thinking about that issue.

You will need to do this anytime you catch yourself over thinking. It only works for specific situations. It's not a general (global) cure for over thinking.

I use this a lot.
So like doing affirmations?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Obviously you still need to study and/or practice whatever you need to learn. It's not intended to make you ****y or complacent.

The whole purpose of this is fight off the "This is impossible. This is way over my head. This is so complicated, I'm lost" type of thinking.
 

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Get a girl that has a sauna or hot tub. Over thinking problems will be resolved. Or pick up a sport like racquet ball.
 
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