"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JohnChops

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How do you stop yourself from overthinking/ thinking to.hard about.something that is easy? I always think everything.is.some complicated route but in reality its as.simple as plug in play. How do I stop?! (Sorry for the periods my phone hates me)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tell yourself it's simple.

Keep telling yourself that it's no big deal, easy, simple, etc.

Your mind will slowly move away from over thinking about that issue.

You will need to do this anytime you catch yourself over thinking. It only works for specific situations. It's not a general (global) cure for over thinking.

I use this a lot.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Tell yourself it's simple.

Keep telling yourself that it's no big deal, easy, simple, etc.

Your mind will slowly move away from over thinking about that issue.

You will need to do this anytime you catch yourself over thinking. It only works for specific situations. It's not a general (global) cure for over thinking.

I use this a lot.
So like doing affirmations?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obviously you still need to study and/or practice whatever you need to learn. It's not intended to make you ****y or complacent.

The whole purpose of this is fight off the "This is impossible. This is way over my head. This is so complicated, I'm lost" type of thinking.
 

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Get a girl that has a sauna or hot tub. Over thinking problems will be resolved. Or pick up a sport like racquet ball.
 
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