"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Things are getting hotter than I expected!!

SamRi72

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Failed to F close my girl the other day after making out on the couch a really long time (my dad called and told me to get the fvck outta there :cry: ) Tons of high kino and great escalation. Anyway now she's on aim and I need a good response. Things are getting too hot to handle!

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...

She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.

What would any of you more experienced DJs say?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My current response would probably be:
Back
(Wait a while)
Heh, cool. But I guess you'll have to wait and find out.

I dunno. I offered to tutor her earlier cuz she has finals next week. Teacher + naughty school girl technique much :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if she's in the cherry balancing state, you better bust on her about it (not literally yet)

non of that neg hitting, c/f, push/pull bullchit, get yourselfs together in a place

ps: i would seriously say what i mentioned in my first post, but that's just how i am
 

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SamRi72 said:
Failed to F close my girl the other day after making out on the couch a really long time (my dad called and told me to get the fvck outta there :cry: ) Tons of high kino and great escalation. Anyway now she's on aim and I need a good response. Things are getting too hot to handle!

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...

She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.

What would any of you more experienced DJs say?
OMG!!!!!! you idiot! lol j/k but that was SUCH! an opening for you.. Let me school you...

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...
She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.

I would have Continued with..
Me: Balancing a cherry on your tongue,.. Thats easy, Try something harder..
Her: What do you mean? Like what?
Me: Balance me on your tongue.

LOL see what happenes. If she was implying something Sexual, then your IN! buddy. ive been in situations just like this and it has led to some Good times!. :)
 
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