"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Things are getting hotter than I expected!!

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Failed to F close my girl the other day after making out on the couch a really long time (my dad called and told me to get the fvck outta there :cry: ) Tons of high kino and great escalation. Anyway now she's on aim and I need a good response. Things are getting too hot to handle!

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...

She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.

What would any of you more experienced DJs say?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My current response would probably be:
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Heh, cool. But I guess you'll have to wait and find out.

I dunno. I offered to tutor her earlier cuz she has finals next week. Teacher + naughty school girl technique much :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if she's in the cherry balancing state, you better bust on her about it (not literally yet)

non of that neg hitting, c/f, push/pull bullchit, get yourselfs together in a place

ps: i would seriously say what i mentioned in my first post, but that's just how i am
 
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SamRi72 said:
Failed to F close my girl the other day after making out on the couch a really long time (my dad called and told me to get the fvck outta there :cry: ) Tons of high kino and great escalation. Anyway now she's on aim and I need a good response. Things are getting too hot to handle!

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...

She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.

What would any of you more experienced DJs say?
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OMG!!!!!! you idiot! lol j/k but that was SUCH! an opening for you.. Let me school you...

Her: your eager for luv arent u
Me: Heh, that statement has quite a lot of meanings.
(Note that this statement tends to imply the question what do you mean)Her: ok
Her: check out my new pic
Me: Aight
Her: so..
Me: I'm a tad busy at the moment. I'll check it out in a bit.
Her: ok...
She posted a pic of her balancing a cherry on her tongue.
I would have Continued with..
Me: Balancing a cherry on your tongue,.. Thats easy, Try something harder..
Her: What do you mean? Like what?
Me: Balance me on your tongue.

LOL see what happenes. If she was implying something Sexual, then your IN! buddy. ive been in situations just like this and it has led to some Good times!. :)
 
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