Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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they always say sorry

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girls always say sorry to me always appolagise for everything for example if we bump in to each other accidnetly, well they appolagise even if its my fault or when there is no reason for any one to appolagise.

i really odnt understand why they are so appolagetic. Is this a good thing? does it imply anything about what they think of me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ManOMan

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I would guess..they apologize because they think they did something wrong...or you read too much into it
 

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Originally posted by b's nuts
maybe they feel sorry for you.
:p sure what ever lol its not that kind of sory if you paid nay attention to the post. Re-read Re-read ;)
 

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Just because a complete stranger (or someone you know) is polite to you doesn't mean she's interested. Don't make yourself sick reading, rereading, and re-rereading her gestures. Getting to know her is the only way you can be sure if she's interested or not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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that was what i thought, i just wanted to see maybe some 1 else saw another reason for it
 

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This IS significant.

It is indicative of the fact that females do not wish to offend someone or have someone mad at them.

I will now leave it up to you to figure out the application to this,
 

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Don't worry, it's just a condtioned response.

It's just like if someone should happen to see you trip and fall. A bystander will approach and say: "are you okay?" I usually respond with: "Yes! I just broke my leg. I'm fine!" :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I get girls appologizing to me all the time also, kinda makes me wonder also, so I dunnnno gl figuring it out lol
 
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Originally posted by sux2bu
Don't worry, it's just a condtioned response.

It's just like if someone should happen to see you trip and fall. A bystander will approach and say: "are you okay?" I usually respond with: "Yes! I just broke my leg. I'm fine!" :confused:
flesh heals.
 

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no i didnt ask if thats a sign of intrest, im asking why they say soory ie are they intimadated or what? because i dont say sorry when its not neccisery.
 
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because i dont say sorry when its not neccisery.
Well what do you do when YOU bump into someone? Say nothing?! That's incredibly rude. It's basically mandatory to apologize when you collide with someone. It doesn't mean **** other then "sorry" Case closed.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yes some are big on feelings(duh..lol) and their little girly issues.Like if you don't say hello when you come in a room or have table manners in public,the way you dress,not being social,etc.

All women should act like that instead of this super-fem *****-bot they wanna potray know.
 

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I think this should go into the archive!
 

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checkmate

Did you think it made you an AFC if you apologized? Why would you not apologize if it was your fault?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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