"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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they always say sorry

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girls always say sorry to me always appolagise for everything for example if we bump in to each other accidnetly, well they appolagise even if its my fault or when there is no reason for any one to appolagise.

i really odnt understand why they are so appolagetic. Is this a good thing? does it imply anything about what they think of me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would guess..they apologize because they think they did something wrong...or you read too much into it
 
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Originally posted by b's nuts
maybe they feel sorry for you.
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:p sure what ever lol its not that kind of sory if you paid nay attention to the post. Re-read Re-read ;)
 
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Just because a complete stranger (or someone you know) is polite to you doesn't mean she's interested. Don't make yourself sick reading, rereading, and re-rereading her gestures. Getting to know her is the only way you can be sure if she's interested or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that was what i thought, i just wanted to see maybe some 1 else saw another reason for it
 
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This IS significant.

It is indicative of the fact that females do not wish to offend someone or have someone mad at them.

I will now leave it up to you to figure out the application to this,
 
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Don't worry, it's just a condtioned response.

It's just like if someone should happen to see you trip and fall. A bystander will approach and say: "are you okay?" I usually respond with: "Yes! I just broke my leg. I'm fine!" :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I get girls appologizing to me all the time also, kinda makes me wonder also, so I dunnnno gl figuring it out lol
 
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Originally posted by sux2bu
Don't worry, it's just a condtioned response.

It's just like if someone should happen to see you trip and fall. A bystander will approach and say: "are you okay?" I usually respond with: "Yes! I just broke my leg. I'm fine!" :confused:
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flesh heals.
 
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no i didnt ask if thats a sign of intrest, im asking why they say soory ie are they intimadated or what? because i dont say sorry when its not neccisery.
 
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because i dont say sorry when its not neccisery.
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Well what do you do when YOU bump into someone? Say nothing?! That's incredibly rude. It's basically mandatory to apologize when you collide with someone. It doesn't mean **** other then "sorry" Case closed.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes some are big on feelings(duh..lol) and their little girly issues.Like if you don't say hello when you come in a room or have table manners in public,the way you dress,not being social,etc.

All women should act like that instead of this super-fem *****-bot they wanna potray know.
 
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I think this should go into the archive!
 
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checkmate

Did you think it made you an AFC if you apologized? Why would you not apologize if it was your fault?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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