"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The type of girl you want?

MatureDJ

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This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

For me, yes I have a solid girl. She has a great mind, good looks, and is young. We get along very well. She definitely looks up to me.

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.
As I consider myself extraordinarily intelligent, I place a high value on intelligence, probably much more so than the typical man. For the woman's physique, I'm old school, and like a good hourglass figure. As for ethnicity, I like White.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As I consider myself extraordinarily intelligent, I place a high value on intelligence, probably much more so than the typical man. For the woman's physique, I'm old school, and like a good hourglass figure. As for ethnicity, I like White.
So what keeps you from finding that girl? I can see it would be hard to find highly intelligent women. I don't consider any woman smarter than i am. There's a reason most aren't cut out for science/math careers.
 

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This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?
I know exactly within a range of the type of girl I'm into, and I will not stop until I get what I want. If that means I have to keep getting more and more aggressive, then so be it.

I'm having fun with my pursuits too, including p!ssing some off here:lol: I'm going to treat people the same way they treat me. There's nothing more important to me then living life on my terms.


3:25 mark



Smart girl with a cute personality


A bit of a nut, makes her interesting

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZOTIr7qidc&list=PLKISr2lXXUbZD1gMyuWnR_ye_R1258t_c&index=37

My celebrity crush
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So what keeps you from finding that girl? I can see it would be hard to find highly intelligent women. I don't consider any woman smarter than i am. There's a reason most aren't cut out for science/math careers.
Even though men and women have equal intelligence on average, there are far more highly intelligent men than highly intelligent women. Women occupy the meat of the bell curve, while the tails are mostly men, and the extreme outliers on both ends are like 99.99% men.

So this means if you're a highly intelligent guy the odds of finding a woman on your level is hard, but it's possible. I mean I know of several male scientists who have married female scientists and that's kind of typical. So it would probably help to be in a field that isn't completely male-dominated.

I don't really know why anyone would prioritize this though. I mean I don't think anyone wants to date a dumb person but out of all the character traits, intelligence doesn't seem as important as something like open mindedness, empathy, self awareness, accountability, etc.

Having said that, I do find the conversations with intelligent women much more enjoyable and interesting, and it's easier to relate to them.
 
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How is your SMV higher, what did you change? Job??
I have improved many areas of my life:
-Understand women better
-Greater social skills
-Improved Physique
-Changed careers(nothing wrong with my old career, but new one sounds more impressive)
-More money(however, they don't know I have money until they have been to my house and I delay that. My property records aren't public either).

I spent a lot of years hanging out in bars and socializing with men and women. Thats probably the greatest contribution to my success.
 
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