"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The type of girl you want?

MatureDJ

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This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

For me, yes I have a solid girl. She has a great mind, good looks, and is young. We get along very well. She definitely looks up to me.

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.
As I consider myself extraordinarily intelligent, I place a high value on intelligence, probably much more so than the typical man. For the woman's physique, I'm old school, and like a good hourglass figure. As for ethnicity, I like White.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Duke

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As I consider myself extraordinarily intelligent, I place a high value on intelligence, probably much more so than the typical man. For the woman's physique, I'm old school, and like a good hourglass figure. As for ethnicity, I like White.
So what keeps you from finding that girl? I can see it would be hard to find highly intelligent women. I don't consider any woman smarter than i am. There's a reason most aren't cut out for science/math careers.
 
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