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The speed of the game has accelerated to a dangerous level

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This post will take a bit of time for me to write and i am only on my phone now.

the time scale of the game with texting and instant communication has become almost frantic for some of us who grew up in more rational times.

Women totally freak out now if they don’t hear from you in a timely manner, assuming you are cheating which may be projection on their part based on their own bad behavior.

The speed of the game makes it far easier for a Don juan or cassanova to make an unforced error.

my only advice is dont let them draw you into it. It happens and mostly with anxiously attached women that are really into you. This is a better situation than the cold hearted dismissive avoidant (believe me ive been and still am married to her)

woman now are becoming more exhausting. I am sure women feel the same about men now.

the short attention spans make it tough
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Women totally freak out now if they don’t hear from you in a timely manner,
That's only if they have high interest level (IL) in the man. In most cases, the man's IL is higher than the woman's. The woman doesn't care if she doesn't hear from him.

the short attention spans make it tough
This is true. Short attention spans and increased competition makes dating via tech methods incredibly challenging.

the time scale of the game with texting
I think text messaging has had a negative effect on early stage dating. Almost all early stage communication now is done through the written word. The phone call is mostly dead in early stage dating.
 

BillyPilgrim

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This post will take a bit of time for me to write and i am only on my phone now.

the time scale of the game with texting and instant communication has become almost frantic for some of us who grew up in more rational times.

Women totally freak out now if they don’t hear from you in a timely manner, assuming you are cheating which may be projection on their part based on their own bad behavior.

The speed of the game makes it far easier for a Don juan or cassanova to make an unforced error.

my only advice is dont let them draw you into it. It happens and mostly with anxiously attached women that are really into you. This is a better situation than the cold hearted dismissive avoidant (believe me ive been and still am married to her)

woman now are becoming more exhausting. I am sure women feel the same about men now.

the short attention spans make it tough
Whatca up to?

Are you working?

Are you okay?

Why are you ignoring me?

You seem to be busy, is something going on?

This is the 2nd night in three weeks you've done this to me...

WhYY aRe U IGNORING ME?!??
 

BaronOfHair

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the short attention spans make it tough
Explains why disenchanted young men today stick to mowing down the entire freshperson class of their nearest junior high with a few quick sweeps from an assault rifle, rather than trying to surpass The DC Sniper(s)'s record.... The latter requires a level of stillness and concentration that's pretty much non-existent in this everything-on-demand world we inhabit now
 

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Explains why disenchanted young men today stick to mowing down the entire freshperson class of their nearest junior high with a few quick sweeps from an assault rifle, rather than trying to surpass The DC Sniper(s)'s record.
Social pathology is characteristic of a polygamous society.
 

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We're rapidly becoming a SEXLESS society
When @MatureDJ says "it's over for X Type Cel", his statements have some merit to them. The statistics have been showing that male sexlessness has been increasing.

Caleb Jones (an early 50s in age Gen X'er) even wrote last year that he's encountering more Gen Z women that have been sexless for long periods.

 

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When @MatureDJ says "it's over for X Type Cel", his statements have some merit to them. The statistics have been showing that male sexlessness has been increasing.

Caleb Jones (an early 50s in age Gen X'er) even wrote last year that he's encountering more Gen Z women that have been sexless for long periods.

Yeah.... Staying indoors, binge watching the latest Netflix/Amazon/Hulu series, f-cking around on Instagram, or/and playing Elden Ring for 10 hours straight APPEARS easier than going outside and being sociable. Not surprisingly, that's what most folks do
 

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This post will take a bit of time for me to write and i am only on my phone now.

the time scale of the game with texting and instant communication has become almost frantic for some of us who grew up in more rational times.

Women totally freak out now if they don’t hear from you in a timely manner, assuming you are cheating which may be projection on their part based on their own bad behavior.

The speed of the game makes it far easier for a Don juan or cassanova to make an unforced error.

my only advice is dont let them draw you into it. It happens and mostly with anxiously attached women that are really into you. This is a better situation than the cold hearted dismissive avoidant (believe me ive been and still am married to her)

woman now are becoming more exhausting. I am sure women feel the same about men now.

the short attention spans make it tough
Why are you focused on women? Are you a great catch? Do you fvck her well? That's all it matters, its not your job to fix her feelings, that's on her, you do you and that's it.

Whatca up to?

Are you working?

Are you okay?

Why are you ignoring me?

You seem to be busy, is something going on?

This is the 2nd night in three weeks you've done this to me...

WhYY aRe U IGNORING ME?!??
"Damn baby, you miss this c0ck deep inside you that much? Come to my house tonight around 8, lets have a drink"

If you take it seriously, you fail the $hit test.

We're rapidly becoming a SEXLESS society.... Might explain why mass shootings remain comparitively infrequent occurences
Yeah.... Staying indoors, binge watching the latest Netflix/Amazon/Hulu series, f-cking around on Instagram, or/and playing Elden Ring for 10 hours straight APPEARS easier than going outside and being sociable. Not surprisingly, that's what most folks do
Exactly, women right now are in a silver platter to be fvcked by a man. Why aren't you taking advantage that most men are not fvcking women?
 

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We're rapidly becoming a SEXLESS society.... Might explain why mass shootings remain comparitively infrequent occurences
It's scary out there, I wonder what things will be like in a few years. Things have become increasingly neurotic and unbalanced and people are still showing smiley faces and putting up a fassage on Social media lol. A lot of famous mass shootings are psyops by the government and elites to divide and conquer the population and to ban guns. I think in the future, there will be an uprising or revolution of some kind by the general public to combat this.
 
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