HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Haha. Good read. So true...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HumbleNinja said:Another Slvt-O-Meter tell tale sign. Any chick who's a new age "hippie". IE: Occupy Wall Street chicks.
Add up more signs on the Slvt-O-Meter and you don't have to bother asking a chick if she's been the towns mattress. The more you add up..Nuff said..
^^^^^this includes weed. Behind closed doors a pothead guy and a pothead girl are on 2 totally different ends of the spectrumNaughty Ninja said:Chicks who've done or do drugs.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wisconsin144 said:Good list, also if they bring up sex more than most people it can be a big hint that she's very open to sex, which points to SLVT.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That you can't tell unless you ask or she offers that info. But hell yea.I'd like to add chicks that have had one or more abortions .. that seriously F's up their already messed up heads.
Had that in the first post down below the main signs. Smoking IMO isn't a 100% sign but if added with say a few tats or weed smoking/ drinking. Well..You missed one off the list
Girls who smoke a lot
I've experienced this so much. They tend to sometimes smoke both cigs and weed.
GTFO .. Slvt.. jkUmm im bisexual and heavily tattooed and im not a s1ut.....im the opposite actually...a majority might be like that but not all of us...jus sayin x
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Holly smokes, that is a high mileage chick. I don't consider a woman more than a bang buddy if she's been with 5 or more men. If you've been with so many guys, you either make poor decisions or there's something wrong with you causing these guys to leave.Ok so I don't want to make a new thread so can slvt questions go here?
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
Pfft. That's nothing. A bird I know told me 35, and she's literally just turned 35. And I believe her.Holly smokes, that is a high mileage chick.
a 28 year old having 15 isn't that much, that's like 2 guys a yearHolly smokes, that is a high mileage chick. I don't consider a woman more than a bang buddy if she's been with 5 or more men. If you've been with so many guys, you either make poor decisions or there's something wrong with you causing these guys to leave.
I know girls who cheated on or branch swung away from the guy they lost their virginity to, it's safe to say that what matters most is what kind of person the girl is.Ok so I don't want to make a new thread so can slvt questions go here?
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.