HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Haha. Good read. So true...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Slvt-O-Meter: Signs you are talking to/dating a slvt!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HumbleNinja
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Another Slvt-O-Meter tell tale sign. Any chick who's a new age "hippie". IE: Occupy Wall Street chicks.
Add up more signs on the Slvt-O-Meter and you don't have to bother asking a chick if she's been the towns mattress. The more you add up..Nuff said..
Add up more signs on the Slvt-O-Meter and you don't have to bother asking a chick if she's been the towns mattress. The more you add up..Nuff said..
The 10 commandments of sluts are pure gold...esp #6. It's true that if you treat a slut well her vag will dry up. I'm guilty of this, but man I learned my lesson!! Treat them like sex toys and watch them bow down to you.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
HumbleNinja said:
You mean those new fangled modern hipster biznitches that bang for art supplies to become the next female Picasso? lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I hate to say it, but the youngest girl I ever dated had every single one of these bad traits. It's impossible to find a girl with zero tattoos it seems. Piercings don't bother me nearly as much. I just chalked it up to her being so young. When I met her and she was 20, she still seemed innocent to me. During the next 6 months I watched the sad change that all girls that age go through. They become evil party girls and their beauty, youthfulness and aura slip away in the process. College seems to destroy women.
The problem with these girls is that if you hang around them long enough they can infect your mind (and other things). In my case it took her 4 months of her initiating and a few dates before I fell for her. It happened without my knowing it. She then punished me like no other.
Therefore, we have to actively avoid girls like this who we do meet. Sadly, the only way is to have hotter girls in the nearby vicinity.
The problem with these girls is that if you hang around them long enough they can infect your mind (and other things). In my case it took her 4 months of her initiating and a few dates before I fell for her. It happened without my knowing it. She then punished me like no other.
Therefore, we have to actively avoid girls like this who we do meet. Sadly, the only way is to have hotter girls in the nearby vicinity.
Wisconsin144
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Good list, also if they bring up sex more than most people it can be a big hint that she's very open to sex, which points to SLVT.
Wisconsin144 said:
Id say one or even a few of some of the signs dont indicate shes a slvt off the bat. But if they start adding up..she has tattoos, body piercings (especially tongue ring, nipples or **** pierced if youve slept with her and or shes shown you) shes admitted in casual conversations to going to spring break several times, she drinks at bars "sick of the bar scene", does or has done drugs, shes "too christian" IE born again (covering up for a past which is a huge red flag), you meet her friends who are either known slvts aws or first time act like slvts or forever party girls, shes known to lie, you catch her lying etc. she hasnt had many ltrs or admits to cheating in the past. Some will openly just give tells in conversation besides visual clues or casual conversation not even needing for you to go into asking how many people shed slept with.
Some of them if they feel comfortable enough with you and feel you wont judge them will be unable to restrain themselves from letting things slip.
Unfortunately like it or not everyone will be judged.
The best advice at that point is either to not catch feelings or if you feel shes truly a great person to not think about the past.
Though IMO the truest thing ever said is dont ever try to turn a h0e into a housewife. And im sorry maybe thats a "weakness" on my part but if I sense the chick has too many signs of being an even past h0e i have no interest in wifing that up let alone continuing wasting my time when i know my own value and dont place even getting some on a pedestal. Thats her bed to lie in. She can find someone else who those checklist of signs added up are unimportant. Too me the more they add up. The more the type of person youre going to deal with in one way or another even IF shes "grown out of that phase".
Not one or a few of the signs are definite but the more they add up...Most all the signs are listed in this thread. Another one. She tells you most of her friends are guys as she doesnt get along with other girls (shes most likely banged other chicks boyfriends or is a known slvt).
Dont ever let that cute smile "i really like you" and great fvcking fool you. If a lot of those signs pop up even before then use your God given brains if you are truly looking for quality and leave her where you found her even IF she finds another dude to wife her up and you are single. Just thank God you didnt inherit her as a future problem or if you do and things go bad you are your own worst enemy.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Ok so I don't want to make a new thread so can slvt questions go here?
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
GoodOne123
Senior Don Juan
You missed one off the list
Girls who smoke a lot
I've experienced this so much. They tend to sometimes smoke both cigs and weed.
Girls who smoke a lot
I've experienced this so much. They tend to sometimes smoke both cigs and weed.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
I'd like to add chicks that have had one or more abortions .. that seriously F's up their already messed up heads.
That you can't tell unless you ask or she offers that info. But hell yea.
Had that in the first post down below the main signs. Smoking IMO isn't a 100% sign but if added with say a few tats or weed smoking/ drinking. Well..
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
GTFO .. Slvt.. jk
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
here's one:
Her pants are sooo tight, her a$$ is oxygen deprived.
Poor a$$
Her pants are sooo tight, her a$$ is oxygen deprived.
Poor a$$
Masculinity
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Holly smokes, that is a high mileage chick. I don't consider a woman more than a bang buddy if she's been with 5 or more men. If you've been with so many guys, you either make poor decisions or there's something wrong with you causing these guys to leave.
TheMonkeyKing
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Pfft. That's nothing. A bird I know told me 35, and she's literally just turned 35. And I believe her.
Thing is though, I just hit number 81 myself a couple of weeks ago. Men can criticise all they like, but those notches don't miraculously appear out of thin air.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
a 28 year old having 15 isn't that much, that's like 2 guys a year
if she was like 21 with 15, that'd be pretty high
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I know girls who cheated on or branch swung away from the guy they lost their virginity to, it's safe to say that what matters most is what kind of person the girl is.
if she's a sex addict or reckless or psychologically damaged, that's a no go. but if her number is high because she likes sex and not because she likes cheating, I don't see a problem
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.