HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Haha. Good read. So true...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HumbleNinja said:Another Slvt-O-Meter tell tale sign. Any chick who's a new age "hippie". IE: Occupy Wall Street chicks.
Add up more signs on the Slvt-O-Meter and you don't have to bother asking a chick if she's been the towns mattress. The more you add up..Nuff said..
^^^^^this includes weed. Behind closed doors a pothead guy and a pothead girl are on 2 totally different ends of the spectrumNaughty Ninja said:Chicks who've done or do drugs.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wisconsin144 said:Good list, also if they bring up sex more than most people it can be a big hint that she's very open to sex, which points to SLVT.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That you can't tell unless you ask or she offers that info. But hell yea.I'd like to add chicks that have had one or more abortions .. that seriously F's up their already messed up heads.
Had that in the first post down below the main signs. Smoking IMO isn't a 100% sign but if added with say a few tats or weed smoking/ drinking. Well..You missed one off the list
Girls who smoke a lot
I've experienced this so much. They tend to sometimes smoke both cigs and weed.
GTFO .. Slvt.. jkUmm im bisexual and heavily tattooed and im not a s1ut.....im the opposite actually...a majority might be like that but not all of us...jus sayin x
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Holly smokes, that is a high mileage chick. I don't consider a woman more than a bang buddy if she's been with 5 or more men. If you've been with so many guys, you either make poor decisions or there's something wrong with you causing these guys to leave.Ok so I don't want to make a new thread so can slvt questions go here?
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
Pfft. That's nothing. A bird I know told me 35, and she's literally just turned 35. And I believe her.Holly smokes, that is a high mileage chick.
a 28 year old having 15 isn't that much, that's like 2 guys a yearHolly smokes, that is a high mileage chick. I don't consider a woman more than a bang buddy if she's been with 5 or more men. If you've been with so many guys, you either make poor decisions or there's something wrong with you causing these guys to leave.
I know girls who cheated on or branch swung away from the guy they lost their virginity to, it's safe to say that what matters most is what kind of person the girl is.Ok so I don't want to make a new thread so can slvt questions go here?
How many men is too much? My ex told me 15 (she was 28) and 3 of those were long term relationships so effectively 12 in 5 years. What do you guys think?
It's less than me so I didn't really care but I made her feel like a slvt over it anyway (stupidly).
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.