youngmack
Master Don Juan
If shes "Bisexual" !!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah i didn't think so either. She comes off as a level headed, talented, artist.allen2000 said:Norah Jones? eh, kind of. but then again she is paid to be a talented, public figure, so she has to evoke a certain emotion in her looks onscreen and in print media.
she is probably just a typical, talented, driven, artsy chick who has had normal relationships with the guys in her life.
but thats just a guess. wish i was one of them...:nervous:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
casaanova said:1. Her close friends are slvts (she WILL try to make it seem like she's the innocent one in the group. She's not. Birds of a feather flock together.)
2. She talks to/insults her friends like guys do as endearment ("Get online hoe" "Stop being a pvssy" "Shut up b*tch"). Penis envy
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SgtSplacker said:Chicks who suddenly become religious/find "God"/ or wear Religion on their sleeve. This on it's own may not completely mean she is or was a slvt but they are trading some kind of addiction with "God" and will use "God" to manipulate you while hiding behind "him". Could be past drug use/alcohol addiction/ wild ways/ were rebellious etc. to which I'd ask questions on why they'd suddenly found "God"...they may follow up with a lie and or the truth but overly religious IMO have things to hide.
The religion thing is a huge red light for me, particularly christianity. Let me begin by saying that I was raised and continue to be a christian, so I have nothing against christianity. But those that follow christianity too much are usually very damaged people. Religion sometimes empowers people to be bad because they can just turn around and make it all better by praying or going to church or something. It's almost like they do not place as much weight on the things they do because they feel it will all go away with a prayer or something.
If I meet a girl that has any vices at all and yet continues to hold her faith very closely. I can assume she gives little weight and importance to her actions when it comes to doing the right thing. At 39 years old I can say I have never ever met a religious fanatic that was not a complete hypocrite.
Hell yea. Chicks who claim they got a few tattoos simply because they "like" them are only throwing out half truths. They know the "tough guy" types they are trying to attract. And these same chicks are sampling as many "bad boys" as they can. ESPECIALLY if they have tattoos stratigically placed near certain areas I.E: Lower back. Thigh, t1ts, and just above or around their spooge recepticles.Fatal Jay said:Yeah chicks with tattoos, to them rather they know it or not means they like being rebellious, truth be told if a chick got a lot of tattoos that show, she is a certified slut.
I also agree about girls doing drugs are sluts too, no matter if it is weed, pills, etc.Women who smoke cigs are sluts also.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wouldn't say smoking cigarettes is a definite. But I'd go down the checklist as well as other dudes advice in the thread and if you meet a chick and are noticing more of the mentioned signs...You should REALLY consider the chick a jumpoff and nothing more.Darth said:This is an entertaining thread, LOL.
I do agree that your truly religious girls will be quiet about it and probably not be loudly going on about it because if she's making a big show about being religious, that is less a reflection of deeply held values and more a sanctimonious show used to justify something. It is truly amazing how many "religious" girls hop from one bed to another, and I say that as a practicing Roman Catholic.
Has dyed hair been mentioned yet? (bright orange, bright pink strips, etc.)
Also, if a girl is a smoker does that make her a slvt these days? Cigarettes are a legal product after all. I think back to the girls I've known who smoked, and one was a known slvt...but the others seemed nice enough.
The less of the signs mentioned. The most likely the better choice you've made on selecting your "wifey". Choose wisely.SamTheHobit said:Hey ninja! Can we get a list of what behaviour quality women exhibit.
Would be nice to see it from the other side.
LOL:crackup: :crackup: This Is exactlly what a slvt would say:crackup: :cheer:ink_wizard said:Umm im bisexual and heavily tattooed and im not a s1ut.....im the opposite actually...a majority might be like that but not all of us...jus sayin x
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.