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Is this the same thread that you were condoning being a pacifist in?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The "real" reason marriage is in decline - Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men, says study
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not a pacifist haha.
But I do think you have great potential, you're smart, that much I know but you chain urself, why?
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What a fvcking pounding that was.
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Stealing more of my lines? I believe those were my words in the other threads today.
Be original. Stick with the ... how you think is ...
Autistic maybe but at least not a thief of lines
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Sure seemed like one. God forbid I have a gun lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Didn’t you know? The guys who preach about being dominant the most, are passive and compensating
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They aren't dominant, they're spazive
Owning a gun is not a big deal, I own one myself and a rifle.
But it wasn't purchased out of fear.
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Haha. I don’t think Spaz knows what spaz means in English but he definitely called right on that one
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You brought out a baller troll in me, bud. Well done
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Haha goodnight fellas. It’s been fun
Guru, you're being childish.
You just don't know how to compartmentalised a disagreement in another thread and then get all emotional by bringing it to here.
So I asked you and uber to stop playing those teenage tricks that boys uses and start to grow up.
That's good for both of you.
By now you should realise that nothing much fazes me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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2 on 1, took it like a champ
Spedophile the Jeffrey Epstein apologist of SS hasn't moved past monitor licking distance of his computer screen.
Spedophile doesn't live on ss. He's a squatter.
Spedophile is a candyless Piñata..you can beat him all day and he produces nothing of any value in return.
Most likely because he's using candy to lure 3rd world minors into the rickshaw he pulls as his "job".
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speed dawg
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I also agree with this and what Julian said. I don't worry with it anymore. Of course, the fact that I have a gun helps in this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.