"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The "real" reason marriage is in decline - Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men, says study

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Actually I was pulling ur leg earlier in this thread to get you out of ur current malaise.

You are ur own worst enemy, it was never me.
Is this the same thread that you were condoning being a pacifist in?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this the same thread that you were condoning being a pacifist in?
I'm not a pacifist haha.

But I do think you have great potential, you're smart, that much I know but you chain urself, why?
 

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It goes to show how emotional you actually are and how easy it is to push ur buttons.
Stealing more of my lines? I believe those were my words in the other threads today.

Be original. Stick with the ... how you think is ...

Autistic maybe but at least not a thief of lines
 
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I'm not a pacifist haha.

But I do think you have great potential, you're smart, that much I know but you chain urself, why?
Sure seemed like one. God forbid I have a gun lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stealing more of my lines? I believe those were my words in the other threads today.

Be original. Stick with the ... how you think is ...

Autistic maybe but at least not a thief of lines
Stealing ur lines?

Phulease.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haha. I don’t think Spaz knows what spaz means in English but he definitely called right on that one
Guru, you're being childish.

You just don't know how to compartmentalised a disagreement in another thread and then get all emotional by bringing it to here.

So I asked you and uber to stop playing those teenage tricks that boys uses and start to grow up.

That's good for both of you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, I would say that that's fvcking baller, kid.

Again, gracious to have your presence basically 24/7. Tell me more about your job.
Spedophile the Jeffrey Epstein apologist of SS hasn't moved past monitor licking distance of his computer screen.

Spedophile doesn't live on ss. He's a squatter.
 

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Teenager is not in my consciousness to be aware of the word. Seems to be in yours tho. Ah That’s right, admitted pedophile in that closed thread, no? Or do 14 yr olds not count as minors in Indonesia?
Spedophile is a candyless Piñata..you can beat him all day and he produces nothing of any value in return.

Most likely because he's using candy to lure 3rd world minors into the rickshaw he pulls as his "job".
 

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I’m going to have to agree with this. But I am no longer in that reality. I need to be effective. So I’m careful with my thoughts.
I also agree with this and what Julian said. I don't worry with it anymore. Of course, the fact that I have a gun helps in this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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