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Is this the same thread that you were condoning being a pacifist in?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The "real" reason marriage is in decline - Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men, says study
- Thread starter RickTheToad
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm not a pacifist haha.
But I do think you have great potential, you're smart, that much I know but you chain urself, why?
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What a fvcking pounding that was.
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Stealing more of my lines? I believe those were my words in the other threads today.
Be original. Stick with the ... how you think is ...
Autistic maybe but at least not a thief of lines
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Sure seemed like one. God forbid I have a gun lol
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Didn’t you know? The guys who preach about being dominant the most, are passive and compensating
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They aren't dominant, they're spazive
Owning a gun is not a big deal, I own one myself and a rifle.
But it wasn't purchased out of fear.
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Haha. I don’t think Spaz knows what spaz means in English but he definitely called right on that one
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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You brought out a baller troll in me, bud. Well done
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Haha goodnight fellas. It’s been fun
Guru, you're being childish.
You just don't know how to compartmentalised a disagreement in another thread and then get all emotional by bringing it to here.
So I asked you and uber to stop playing those teenage tricks that boys uses and start to grow up.
That's good for both of you.
By now you should realise that nothing much fazes me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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2 on 1, took it like a champ
Spedophile the Jeffrey Epstein apologist of SS hasn't moved past monitor licking distance of his computer screen.
Spedophile doesn't live on ss. He's a squatter.
Spedophile is a candyless Piñata..you can beat him all day and he produces nothing of any value in return.
Most likely because he's using candy to lure 3rd world minors into the rickshaw he pulls as his "job".
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speed dawg
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I also agree with this and what Julian said. I don't worry with it anymore. Of course, the fact that I have a gun helps in this.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.