"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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You seriously need to get out of that little conner you call home and experience the world.

If you can't, then find one of those guys that works in caterpillar, ask him how much housing allowance he's paid when he's in Singapore or Jakarta.

Then you'll realise my USD$5k per month housing allowance is peanuts.

However its dependent on location as you rightly pointed out.

If I was in Hong-Kong, I'll get more lol.
Well, I would say that that's fvcking baller, kid.

Again, gracious to have your presence basically 24/7. Tell me more about your job.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
 
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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
Constantly jocking you, bro.

When I'm banging chicks from here on out, I'm going to call them orspazms.
 

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@TyTe`EyEz what do you think about men from
SE Asia, in a third-world country replete with such poverty that he can buy women for as little as 100 per month preaching advice on to have harems of women (who desire the man outside of being bought) in the US—with words I have given him since he joined Sosuave a year and 6000 posts ago?
You're come to join in the fun guru hahaha
 

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Well, I would say that that's fvcking baller, kid.

Again, gracious to have your presence basically 24/7. Tell me more about your job.
Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
Ah yes, preach to him about the flea market/vending you got going in Indonesia. If the girls costs 100 per month, how much are the shish kebabs?
 
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Would you like me to tell you how to easily earn some seed money in ur country by doing almost nothing?

I can give even better financial advice then ex Wall Street losers.
I've been pretty open about how you steal other people's ideas and make them your own. I think you're a fraud.

Edit - a creative fraud
 

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I can always tell when someone has never worked internationally. If I needed big money I would be back doing it.
 

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Ah yes, preach to him about the flea market/vending you got going in Indonesia. If the girls costs 100 per month, how much are the shish kebabs?
You forgot my 700 acres of useless cheap land..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been pretty open about how you steal other people's ideas and make them your own. I think you're a fraud.

Edit - a creative fraud
This is true.

But we have to give him credit for one idea he keeps reiterating:

“How you think is how you act is how you do things”

Or something like that. He sounds autistic every time he types it
 

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I can always tell when someone has never worked internationally. If I needed big money I would be back doing it.
They have no clue of even the market rate of rental in places like Singapore or Hong Kong.

Wait till they see the prices in shanghai.
 
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This is true.

But we have to give him credit for one idea he keeps reiterating:

“How you think is how you act is how you do things”

Or something like that. He sounds autistic every time he types it
Sh1t, guru, I'll do you one easier, "should have manned up."

No sh1t.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And each time I mentioned ur teenage pranks, you get all excited don't you.
Teenager is not in my consciousness to be aware of the word. Seems to be in yours tho. Ah That’s right, admitted pedophile in that closed thread, no? Or do 14 yr olds not count as minors in Indonesia?
 

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Sh1t, guru, I'll do you one easier, "should have manned up."

No sh1t.
Actually I was pulling ur leg earlier in this thread to get you out of ur current malaise.

You are ur own worst enemy, it was never me.
 

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Teenager is not in my consciousness to be aware of the word. Seems to be in yours tho. Ah That’s right, admitted pedophile in that closed thread, no? Or do 14 yr olds not count as minors in Indonesia?
You seem upset guru..

That you feel the need to accuse me of being a pedophile.
 

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You seem upset guru..

That you feel the need to accuse me of being a pedophile.
Yes terribly.

Oh so you’re now a recovered pedophilic after that pouncing? Good for you
 

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Yes terribly.

Oh so you’re now a recovered pedophilic after that pouncing? Good for you
It goes to show how emotional you actually are and how easy it is to push ur buttons.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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